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My girlfriend said she's mad at me becasue I didn't hug her?
Basically she was waiting on a restaurant table sitting down in the sun and I just said 'Hey dear' and sat down. She didn't reach her hands out or anything
She didn't say anything then, she started talking then stopped, looked at me and said, "I'm mad at you, you didn't hug me!"
Am i a bad person or she's a little insane?
82 Answers
- Common SenseLv 72 years ago
Wow, she is really needy and terribly insecure.
What, may I ask, prevented HER from getting up to greet YOU with a hug? Nothing.
People date for a reason and that is to see if you are compatible enough to continue on with a mutual commitment, or not. It takes time to get to know someone. Face it, we are all on our very best behavior when we begin to date someone. But, not many people can keep their guard up forever and their true personality begins to surface. You are learning that she, for whatever reason, feels like she needs more attention from you, but is unwilling to initiate it herself. If you take the time to evaluate your relationship with her, you may detect other similar issues she has with affection, attention and perhaps insecurities of one kind or another. Mind you, none of which are terrible things if you are willing to always give her the attention she needs.
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- LZ-PTLv 42 years ago
It is fine to hug on a first date. Some people take it to the next level with kissing and sometimes even sex. Hugging is a sign of appreciation and acceptance of another person. ... women expect more passionate approach by a guy.
- Emily RoseLv 72 years ago
She's not insane she just likes affection. Just hug her from now on when u see her that will make her feel better.
- roderick_youngLv 72 years ago
You're not a bad person, maybe just inexperienced. She's not insane, she falls within normal for girls - sometimes, they're randomly sensitive.
It's hard for me to imagine forgetting, but if it was me, I'd immediately say "oh, sorry!" and hug her extra long. Or if I did not for a reason, I'd explain that I'm getting sick and should quarrantine, or am all gross from doing yardwork or changing the oil.