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My girlfriend said she's mad at me becasue I didn't hug her?

Basically she was waiting on a restaurant table sitting down in the sun and I just said 'Hey dear' and sat down. She didn't reach her hands out or anything

She didn't say anything then, she started talking then stopped, looked at me and said, "I'm mad at you, you didn't hug me!"

Am i a bad person or she's a little insane?

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  • 2 years ago

    Slow poke

  • 2 years ago

    Insane

  • GEEGEE
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Perhaps she was joking (a bit) but she's also giving you a hint.

  • 2 years ago

    Wow, she is really needy and terribly insecure.

    What, may I ask, prevented HER from getting up to greet YOU with a hug? Nothing.

    People date for a reason and that is to see if you are compatible enough to continue on with a mutual commitment, or not. It takes time to get to know someone. Face it, we are all on our very best behavior when we begin to date someone. But, not many people can keep their guard up forever and their true personality begins to surface. You are learning that she, for whatever reason, feels like she needs more attention from you, but is unwilling to initiate it herself. If you take the time to evaluate your relationship with her, you may detect other similar issues she has with affection, attention and perhaps insecurities of one kind or another. Mind you, none of which are terrible things if you are willing to always give her the attention she needs.

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  • LZ-PT
    Lv 4
    2 years ago

    It is fine to hug on a first date. Some people take it to the next level with kissing and sometimes even sex. Hugging is a sign of appreciation and acceptance of another person. ... women expect more passionate approach by a guy.

  • 2 years ago

    She just loves you and wants to hug you it is normal for some people.

  • 2 years ago

    Well if you want stuff from her you got to hug her.

  • 2 years ago

    She's not insane she just likes affection. Just hug her from now on when u see her that will make her feel better.

  • 2 years ago

    Hug her passionately next time

  • 2 years ago

    You're not a bad person, maybe just inexperienced. She's not insane, she falls within normal for girls - sometimes, they're randomly sensitive.

    It's hard for me to imagine forgetting, but if it was me, I'd immediately say "oh, sorry!" and hug her extra long. Or if I did not for a reason, I'd explain that I'm getting sick and should quarrantine, or am all gross from doing yardwork or changing the oil.

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