Can a marraige work if the husbands family hates his wife?

So what ***** he has a right to give money to his family, you have no reason to be upset.

Usually only if the husband is willing live far away from his family and to have little to contact with them. But your problem isn't that your in-laws hate you. Your problem is that your husband prioritizes his family and lies to you about it. Blame him, not them.

I don't know since I don't know what a "marraige" is

You already know the answer. Just get a good lawyer and rake his butt over the coals, so he has no money for his mommy or daddy.

Yes, it will make you both grow up.

What kind of parents depend on their grown son to take care of them financially unless they are sick or old??? These people are real losers!

I see no future fo you two if he cannot say no to his family, he will always put them before you.

No .

This is more about you and your husband, and less about his family and whether they hate you or not. It seems he is more married to them than to you,and no, it can't work under these circumstances.

You should’ve dealt with your husband – and not with his family. He’s the one enabling them by continually giving them money. He should put a stop to it and he should not have lied to you about it – that is all on him. I handled a similar situation by giving money to my parents every time she gave money to her family and I just asked my parents to put it aside for me – then when my wife’s behavior broke the marriage up I had a stash of cash.