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Can we get married without completing our sacraments?

 My fiance and I have been living together for 11 years and have 2 children that we have already baptized catholic. 

 We are not married legally and don’t have any previous marriages of any sort. I am baptized catholic and confirmation but not my first communion. My fiance was only baptized catholic. Our local church requires us to go to classes every Monday from 7-9pm from January to the end of May to complete our sacraments and a marriage prep class all day on a Saturday.  Due to our work and commute schedules we cannot attend classes to complete our sacraments. But we can attend the marriage prep class. Is it possible for us to have a marriage recognized by the church and full traditional catholic mass without completing our sacraments?

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    Talk to your priest about receiving the sacraments before you do get married. By reciting the rosary every day with care, a person can have greater strength to do this.

  • 1 year ago

    You could, but it would be a mistake. It sounds as though you've been shoe horned into a one size fits all, RCIA program, when all you need is some specific training. Talk to the powers that be and ask for some special consideration. You might be pleasantly surprised.

    Source(s): www.askmeaboutgod.org
  • 1 year ago

    If you want accurate information, inquire at a Catholic church.

  • 1 year ago

    If you believe so, you'll never get married because Jesus fulfilled all "sacraments."

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    I might have to report you to Harry Potter . Don't make me do it .

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    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    Talk to your priest about this.

    My guess is: they are going to be fairly insistent that you both be confirmed and "communioned" before the marriage

    but

    they may give you some slack

    since

    they consider marriage to be a much, much better condition than "living in sin" (i.e. living together unmarried).

    SO: talk to your priest.

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    I have 2 words for you. Courthouse marriage. 

  • 1 year ago

    In my parish it is not OK. Howeever, you parish may look at it differently.

    Source(s): Bless you, my child.
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