Forgive and forget? OR forgive and move on?

There is power in forgiveness, and courage is gained by moving on. I believe one should always forgive. First and foremost for your own benefit. And then equally, for the benefit of the other person, who continues the same "mistakes".

If you stop the cycle, by moving on, the circumstances change and your self-respect will indefinitely grow. And at the same time, in the absence of someone to offend, the violator will have time to reflect and ideally (but maybe, maybe not-its not your concern)  evolve and become a better person and not make the same mistakes moving forward into their next relationship.

Ending a relationship, regardless of the circumstances, will generally feel like heartbreak. Sadness is a healthy normal response, but the feelings are temporary.

That would all depend on how much it is bothering you. It would seem it is bothering you enough that you are considering moving on so I would say move on without that person.

This person does not believe they have done anything wrong, and so it's unlikely they will change their behaviour. It may be that they will find someone who is happy with them just the way they are.This isn't you! Don't waste your time on deep thoughts about forgiving and forgetting, grieve and have your feelings of sadness, accept you are not right for each other, and move on with your life :)

I think it's important to forgive them in order to move on. If they don't change then they don't care enough to be in your life. Also things can't go right back to the way they were before because it doesn't work like that it takes time to build that trust back up again. I don't know i really think this guy doesn't deserve to have you in his life it seems like his definition of an apology is just saying it to get out of trouble and it's not genuine especially bc he continues to do the same things. I hope whatever you decide works out for you and good luck.

There's a difference in forgiveness and foolishness.... move yourself away from a person who does the same thing to you over and over... again..You don't have to interact to show forgiveness just be kind and leave them alone. ... because you're no one's FOOL!

Forgiveness isn't something you have to show. Forgiveness is for YOU so you will feel a little 'cleaner' inside. You don't have to always add the word "forget" to the word forgive. 

If you have been repeatedly told things are going to change, and they don't, then yes--it's time to move on. A person who does not even try to change after hurting someone is not someone who is going to change because you offer forgiveness. You're not stupid--you're stuck. Apologies only mean something when they're backed up by actions. There is no reason to suffer the same crap over and over again. And you shouldn't forget--because it may happen again with someone else. Keep in mind that you can only be hurt by another person if you give them the opportunity and the means. Your acceptance of their repeated, meaningless apologies is just that sort of opportunity and means. Cut your losses and move on. No one needs that kind of toxic behavior in their lives. 

It’s hard to know as we don’t know the facts

Forgiveness can be a challenge. It’s not always easy. When we choose to forgive we benefit ourselves. Holding on to anger and resentment can make us miserable. 

Sometimes in life, you just have to forgive, and forget in the sense that you don’t keep rehashing a thing, and move on.

No need to be taken advantage of. God requires us to forgive. We’re human and sooner or later we will need forgiveness.  Also, God want us to use a spirit of a sound mind and be reasonable.

We can’t change anyone, they have to put forth the effort to change and stick to it. Your choice to forgive, your choice to move on.

Forgive and avoid is a much more realistic approach when it comes to dealing with someone who has shown a pattern of negative or destructive behavior towards you. Forgiveness is for mistakes not for patterns. Once someone proves themselves to be toxic, it's only natural to not want to give them another chance which they will waste again and the cycle of pain continues.

Stop worrying about which choice is the 'right thing' to do, and instead make the choice you need to make for your own continued happiness. Forgive them if you think they deserve it...it doesn't really matter...but do what you have to do to survive.