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Cloven asked in Social SciencePsychology · 2 weeks ago

When we praise someone, is it a way of showing we feel superior to them?

Especially when it is worded in certain ways, such as "well done" or "excellent work"

Update:

Granny, you kind of answered my question.. praising a dog or math problem solved(a child or someone in a learning role)

Would you normally walk up to your boss and say "well done, thats excellent work" when you saw they finished doing some task?

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  • 2 weeks ago
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    It could be, I've never really thought of it that way before, but I do think that it would depend on the person and their hidden intentions. I've never really used the phrases "well done" or "excellent work," then again I'm not a teacher or in a profession that normally uses those phrases. But those phrases do seem a little rehearsed to me. I do know that after I've read something that's nicely written (I love to read,) I normally lose my wits over it and say improper things such as, "holy cows, this is amazeballs," or, "LK;JF;LAKSJF;LSJDFASD OMG THIS IS AMAZING," at no time when I say that do I feel superior, just inspired. I've also noticed (back in high school) that a lot of my teachers would write long paragraphs about how amazed they were when it comes to my creative writing, but simply write "well-done," like you said, when it came to my academic writing (research papers, analytical papers, etc.) I've always been a lot better at creative writing than academic writing. I think (sometimes) that people put "well-done" because they really do think your work is decent, but not inspiring, or because they're just too lazy to write more than that. This is a really interesting question I've never thought about. 

  • Anonymous
    2 weeks ago

    Yes, in a way it is.

  • 2 weeks ago

    No. It is just a statement that someone did a good job.  Like praising a dog when it preformed a correct command.  Whether it be a math problem solved correctly or a kitchen cleaned very well, it was a good job, excellent work, well done.  An affirmation of praise.

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