Paper Hater

My very first girlfriend I ever had called me over the summer and left a message on my answering machine cause I was out of town at the time. We dated over 27 yrs ago, and it seems like every 5 to 10 yrs she calls me. The last time I saw her she started seeing my best friend at the time and ended up marrying him. I didn't want to see her then and we left other than friendly. that was 15 yrs ago. On her message she didn't even say her name she just said it was Bobbies wife, but I knew her voice.

Why after all of these yrs does she have to call??

I finally decided to start dating after 10yrs and tried a dating site. Now I have two ladies that want to meet me. I have told one that I have been chatting with another that is interested and she said she is fine with it. I also plan to tell the second one also, to be straight and up front with both of them. My problem is even if they both are fine with it, I'm not. I never dated two people at the same time cause I felt that I wasn't giving the people my full attention and emotional support needed to make a relationship work. I feel that if you date you date one person and only one person at a time. If I want to date some one else then the relationship I'm in isn't working and I should end it before dating the second person.

How do I change Me so as to give both an equal chance and not a mistake of mising out on a good person cause I limited myself???

thank you for your answers

So many people in this country Biiitch about the Government and those are the one that either don't vote or are not even registered.

And for the people that do vote, why complain when WE re-elect the same damn pople we complain about. the fix is not voting for anyone already in office and start over!!

when they don't like your response. I answered a question about "promiscious" and answered "it make you a whore or a S1ut."

I get an email from BETH basically calling me stupid, that guys can be promicious. NO kidding and guys can be s1uts and whores.

If you only want your side to be told they why are you sending an email and blocking the response. If your not going to give a person a chance to responed , why don't you just keep it to yourself.

How many other people have experinced this same cowardness in the people here.

Why is when women are ask if they prefer a guy with good personality or good looking they always say personality. You can't get to the personality unless you willing to get past the looks.

If a geek or nerd with a great personality walked up to you you wouldn't give them the time of day but if a hottie with a crappy personality walked up to you, you would give him time until you found out that hes an a$$hole. So how can you say personality is more important when you don't give every one the chance to show their personality???

1- I'm an ugly dog that should be put to sleep

10- I'm just a dog

wait a minute I'm a cat this won't work!!

before you go nuts it's a joke relax and take the two points

I do have a 360 page but hold on to your stomach if you enter

Why when you sign up on an online dating site, women (if they are women) think they can play. what do they think, that since your older you will fall for some sad story to give them money and make you think they really want a relationship. In two days I have been contacted by three people all saying they were un 30 and was interested in some one in their late 40's. They all gave me some sad story about how they needed money and they liked me. Do they really think that since you are older you are stupid?? Any other guys get this crap from a pay site like match.com?

just wondering how good people are at guessing age.

By looking at my picture or 360 page (don't look too long I don't want to be responable for any one getting sick)

How old do I look??

just wondeing if I'm too old for this

my boy is 48 but my mind can't make it's self up if it's 20 or 100

I think women must drink way to much or eat alot of bad food til they get sick, because everytime a women looks at me she throws up. doen't have to be food or drink?? but it onlly happens when they look at me..

Just joking don't take this serious unless you look at my picture and trwo up. your welcome for the 2 points

I have some one that I fell in love with and told her. She didn't feel the same way and is very uncomfortable around me so I was told to stay away. which I am doing but every time her name is brought up my heart and stomach falls to my legs. I haven't seen her almost 3 weeks and I thought I was pretty much over her. I found some else that I am talking to but the other ladies name was brought up to day and the sinking feeling is back. I know down deep that those feelings will never go away totally, but I wish the pain of not being welcome in her life would go away. How do you stop the pain?????

If an older guy was looking for a younger lady hes a pervert

If the same lady is looking for an older guy she is looking for a father figure

and both over 18

isn't that the good old double standard

how many people he are over 40?????

I filled out the questionaire for EHarmony.com and said they could not match me. Is that sad or what.

How many ladies flirt with guys just to mislead them and then laugh at them.

How many flirt just to let a guy know they like him

or both.

also can't flirting be mistaken for friendship and not interest

I'm 48 and wondering where in the world would you go to meet nice ladies. Don't drink don't smoke don't do drugs and have 2 left feet. Uncomfortable in crowds. also how find someone with out all the damn games that go on anymore.

Don't say nursing homes they have wheel chairs and they go fast and can't catch them just a joke.

curious what women really think if they are honest and mean well

thank you for your replies

Why do beautiful ladies think that getting a tattoo makes them hotter. I personally find it a major turn off. I like the natural beauty. I'm just glad you can't tattoo the eyes.

I am 48 yr old and had only afew relationships and all ended with the following. Your a nice guy but.

It's not you it's me

You deserve better

Your too good to me

How many ladies have used these or simular. and if women are looking for nice guys why do they dump them with these lame saying?

What would be the oldest guy you would think of having a relationship with. Your age and his age.

would that age change if you had a chance with someone that is rich or famous.

How do you get a person out of your head and heart when you know you can't have a relationship with some one that age. You tell your feelings and that you need to stay away, but it is hard not to hurt. No physical contact of any kind happened just feeling. and if it is so wrong then why is it ok for Tom cruise and Kate Homles to have a relationship. is it that money buys respect all others are perverts? I want to let it go but it's hard knowing I hurt her telling her the truth. what is the best way to forget her short a bullet to the head.