Ricardo

She doesn't live near me, but we had something whenever she was here. Now I'm not sure if she still wants the same but we do still talk. Less than before though

I m a skinny 6 0 24 year old guy 149.91 pounds and i ve been trying mewing. One of those products where you can chew and strenghten your jaw. Is it possible i ll start noticing differences? I eat, i just don t put too much focus on protein.

Been trying skin care products for the first time ever. So I brought this Level 1 skin care on the tiege website and been using them frequently... Thing is I now got dark eyebags on my right eye... It's like I got punched. Is this normal for the first time or is it an allergy or something?

And my social anxiety and inability to speak properly get in the way.

24 and never been lucky with anyone. I've had girls admit that their friends felt attraction for me after whatever movement I did, which is so incredibly odd to know. But I have seen that aswell. But then I open my mouth to speak. This is why I'm always the quiet guy who struggles so much to speak to others.. I am so insecure about what I say or how my voice come out that I end up messing up what I say, of course, and give out really bad vibes that others want to stay away from. And those who do give me a chance I offer them nothing, so they leave. I'm that guy who manages to be submissive towards 99% of people I meet and it is so counter productive because i am literally asking to be bullied and be taken advantage off. It feels like I'm wasting all my potential non this life and eventually Itll be too late because girls will stop looking at me the same way. I'm mentally ill. And I hate being socially aware of things without having a clue of what to do everything.

This little thing called social anxiety as ruined pretty much everything for me when it comes to friends and dates. A trauma when it comes to missed opportunities

This girl was (maybe still is) in a very abusive relationship. Bad one. Clearly to even co-workers

She would look at me, she would blush when I was nice to her, she would try to get close to me and all I did was making things weird. I ignored her all the time since I never knew what to say. She eventually stopped. Probably when I started looking at her more than I should instead of being a normal person and treat her normally. My coworker who had an intense argument with her bf said that she very well might have tried to leave him before but he didn't let her. This whole thing is what gets me. I'd do everything if I were to have a shot with her. If I didn't have this shy and clumsy personality things maybe would be different. I try to think of every outcome where I never had a shot with her because it hurts less, tho it still hurts of course. I don't know. And I will never know. She's a great talker but also shy and insecure. Has dyed blonde hair, blue eyes contacts too. She'd try not too look like a loner when I was around. but I'm sort of a loner too. So maybe she didn't want to look like me. Idk. ... I'll never see you again anyway, good to you and maybe me, hopefully.. eventually.

I caught feelings for a girl early this year who was in an abusive relationship. We all worked together. The guy was very insecure and madly obcessed with her, he'd always give her sht if she looked at some other guy. Constantly upproached and tried to put me down when I was working beside her (didn't even realize why he was doing it until a co-worker told me it was because she was near me) Has hit her before in front of everybody, and for 5 months of the 6 months i never saw her with a smile on her face and constantly saw him giving her sht. Literally no love shown. Looked like he was always pissed off at her. God knows what was like at home.. She was very vulnerable to the point of blushing if some guy was nice to her. Then all of a sudden, in that last month, I see her happy with him everyday..

I know the guy.. and he struggles alot mentally, He does not deserve her but he isn't a bad guy.. You can attack me for saying that tbh. But thats what she saw in him I suppose. She stuck with him. Supports him and would give up her job for him. He has the sweetest girl I've ever met by his side and I envy him every second. And I haven't seen neither of them for 3 months and possibly never will, I still think about her. She deserves so much better, and I know she will eventually realize that, but... I won't be there, and even if I was, it wouldn't be me. It's Christmas and I'm typing this dumb sht.

I like her alot. I have for almost a year. But anxiety stopped me from achieving anything.. I can't upproach her and get close to her to become her friend.

You know what hurts the most? I can't get close or be anyone's friend. Meanwhile she, a really shy girl, but co-workers who talk to her like her alot. I can predict the future, and soon enough she will start to be invited to parties where I won't be included. She will meet other guys with the help of her friends (who dislike me). She will find somebody and I'll be here rotting in a corner. I really can't do this anymore. I just want these feelings to stop. I don't want to have feelings for anyone anymore. Im always unconfortable around people and ofc they get uncomfortable aswell.. I can't change.

I have horrible social skills and too many social traumas. I keep finding people that try their best to insert dominance with me and they usually make it. I don't think I'm bad looking and I'm quite tall. I know people would like me if I could be myself.. but that's pretty much impossible. This social anxiety prevents me from getting comfortable around people. It's a turn off for women as soon as I open my mouth.

I could be at home and imagine scenarios where I try to get close to someone and succeed. Hence making them my friend. But not even that way I manage it, lmao. My brain blocks when I want to have something to say. I'm so into this girl. She has tried to get close to me several times. But either something happened and I had to leave, or I kept talking about work that she'd just smile and look at me like: " ugh man..". Just an example. Could be going on and on about similar stories. I wanna stop lowering myself towards others. I wanna stop putting people in a pedestal and wonder if they like me. This is not who I am. But anxiety makes me this way.

I'm 24... I can't keep going on like this.

I have this set of earphones that were working really well for the past 3 months. Now, they don t seem to work ONLY in my phone. I plug them in and the phone doesn t recognize them... They seem to work in every other phone. And if i use some other earphones in my phone they work aswell... What might be the issue?

We all worked in the same place and the abuse was pretty clear to everyone.. Mostly happened outside ofc. He stresses out alot. 5 months where we'd see eachother all the time and not once did I see her happy other than a forced smile with him. It's like he was mad at her all the time and I'd always see him stressing because she apparently looked at someone or whatever.

I hated looking at that so I tried to be visibly nice to her when i had the chance. She liked it. She'd blush whenever I was nice to her (tho at that point she'd blush at anyone who was nice to her) I'd catch her looking at me, id catch her try not to look like a loner when I was around. But I never did a thing. I catch feelings so fast and I honestly would have done anything to take her out of that relationship. But I did nothing. Anyway, things changed and now I see her happy walking with him. Jesus, I'll never understand why things work this way. But I guess this is good.

Had to take this out. Maybe my anxiety protected me in this situation by not letting me upproach her, but I also wouldn't give a fk about the consequences. She needs better. Unfortunately, it's not me

She's always smoking weed, occasionally drinks but don't think she gets drunk. Talks so well and is really enthusiastic with everybody. Including guys. Always goes partying with her friends (they're mostly girls tho), yet, on Twitter, she's always talking about how depressed and lonely she is. Always talking about how she wants to screw and cuddle. That she wants a boyfriend. Pretty much her whole account is related to sex, lol.

I don't know what idea I gave you about her.. but gotta mention she has a really good heart.

Me, her and a few friends have been out before, where she gave me her Twitter in the beggining of the night. I wasn't feeling well and wasn't talking much, so I left after dinner and before getting drinks we planned to. None of them liked it.. Did ask a big friend of hers if all was good about me having left and she said yes.. 2 months since I've spoken to her btw. If I were to talk to this girl.. I have her Twitter

I might not see her again. And it's ending me.

*TW*

She was in a very abusive relationship that was clear even in public.

I had lots of feelings for her

I know she just wanted someone to talk and I did nothing. I'd love for that person to have been me. She would've said yes.

Taking a look back I think some other guy took that chance for me. But I don't think she has left her bf. It's hurting me regardless. She might be telling this guy how everything is going. Meeting up. 

And here I am typing this.

Be really honest despite what im gonna say. Im 24 and i have social anxiety. Talking to people has been an extreme difficult task for me so im sort of the guy to ask questions and listen. I dont have much going on in life so theres nothing to say about myself. Even if its basic stuff like series, movies and music i know thats just basic convo.. Is it possible to find love this way? I think im better at texting but to that id need to find a way to get a girls number. And that right there is hard if you can't get close.

Be really honest despite what im gonna say. Im 24 and i have social anxiety. Talking to people has been an extreme difficult task for me so im sort of the guy to ask questions and listen. I dont have much going on in life so theres nothing to say about myself. Even if its basic stuff like series, movies and music i know thats just basic convo.. Is it possible to find love this way? I think im better at texting but to that id need to find a way to get a girls number. And that right there is hard if you can't get close.

I just don't insert myself in the conversation. It's gotten to the point that they know I won't have much to say so I'll just be the guy asking questions as they keep talking. They'll ask me things but i just give short answers and that's it. I am proud to say that at least I had the guts to start a conversation with this girl I'm into (21F), twice, but how was it? LoL, first time I could actually feel her go ugh while smiling because I kept going on about work instead of trying to have a friend convo with her (I knew her for months tho we rarely ever talked). Then again this convo lasted like 1 minute since we were getting to work. 2nd time we were talking about stuff and she just kept going on and on with me to the point she lost 5 minutes of her lunch break because she forgot to look at the clock. Is it possible to get a good friendly relationship with someone by being this way? To get a girlfriend this way? It's torturous

Like, I don't feel like going on a date with a girl never met. Tinder for example is just so weird for me.. anyone else like this?

I am not good enough to keep studying. I don't see myself following a career because I don't have the traits to keep a job. I got social anxiety, struggling with depression, and I have an hard time getting close to people or even listen. Tho I think I work really hard. But they would never want me permanently somewhere. So what I basically do is jump from temporary to temporary job till my contract is over, and basically live like that.. It's a struggle. 

This has been on my head ever since I left that job a month ago. There's was this girl that was in an abusive relationship, which was very clear even in public. She knew I know this because I've seen him going wild at her several times. Anyway, Me, her and a couple of other older women were one of the few people who started working first in that temporary job 6 months ago. And me and this girl rarely spoke to eachother for that whole time. Not just because it just didn't happen, but because i avoided her mostly because I knew how her boyfriend (who worked there too b4 he got sent away) was. He'd lose it everytime a guy spoke to her or even looked at her. He once spent an whole day messing with me just because I was working next to her. Didn't even realize why he was doing it until a couple of my co-workers told me.  So, I just rarely ever spoke to her other than a few small chats and good mornings, tho I'd see her all the time. And I feel bad because she always was very nice to everyone, yet kind of a loner.

Anyway I've came to notice that whenever I'd help my friend she'd see me and avoid looking like she's by herself so she'd slowly approach other girls and just stay there uncomfortably. Whenever I was doing some work on a team, I'd catch her staring and sometimes join in a timid way. I'm pretty certain she wanted me to speak to her normally, but I never really did. I was one of the few that never really did.

To use on my face. No pun intended.

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