Laura D

Right long story sorry.

I met this girl in town a month ago and we swapped numbers and texted loads.

She was really drunk on facebook one night and told me she really didn't want a relationship, told me to avoid them and asked me what type of girl I liked and said she was gonna find me 1.

Few days later she calls me drunk midnight time saying shes with some girl and shes stroking her leg and she want me there, begs me to come, tells me she thinks I'm hot and all this. (I was miles away at the time).

Again we exchanged a few texts ect and she asked me if I was off to this party in town i said maybe but a few days later i said i was and i went.

only thing was i got there at 7 after i'd been drinking since 6 and i didnt meet her until half 11 and i was already really drunk and she'd been on stuff all day and i was all over her whoops. she told me she didnt want to take advantage of me and stuff so we didnt do anything which was fair enough.

Next day i apologised by text and stuff and it was all good, she invited me to the park but i had a family meal so i didnt go, i said id take her for coffee sometime (work in coffee shop) and she said she was lookin forward to it we sent a few more texts.

This was 11 days ago, i no the ball is in my court and i have to ask her out, or talk to her but i dont know how. i dont want to send a text as it seems random and im too scared, i was about to talk to her on facebook the other day but i got really scared and chickened out. i really dont know what to do. ive never liked a girl that likes girls before so i wanna give this a shot, im reallly attracted to her and im scared she wont like me in the soberness. i no im being insecure but im really stuck :(

I'm 18 in a couple of weeks and shes 19

do you think ive left it too long?

what should i do?

how should i do it?

aaaggghhhh!!!!!! :(

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"Who in family life hasn't had to work a bit harder"

I like Australian :P

I know this doesn't need to be in this category, I'm just bored and lets face it we're better :)

Like women but only seem to like the straight ones?? Granted I don't know any other gay women but I've not being attracted to any lesbian women yet only straights! Happened to you? If so what happened did you like lesbians after a while or what?

be out or not?

I'm not ready now and I won't be in another year, but I don't want to stay in the 'closet' (God I really hate that whole analogy) for the rest of my life. Plus i might want to join like LGBT societies and stuff. What do you think I should do? It seems like a good idea to be out but I don't wanna tell people. Any past experiances you can help me by sharing? Plus I want like a girlfriend too.

Seriously does my head in, I know 1 lesbian and like 1 bi girl. Seriously is it just me or is this bugging anyone else?

Also how old were you when you were in your first relationship with a member of the same sex if you have been yet?

I'm going to my friends house on thursday to do psychology work with my other friend and this girl that i really like is going to be there, however i'm really scared because i really like her but its never going to happen cause im really ugly and shes so cute, so anyway i dont know how to be myself and talk normally and stuff cause i get reeeally nervous around her and i dont know what to do :(

cause i liked this other girl for like 3 years and it took me about 6 months before i could speak to her properly without any stutterings or hesitations or anything.

so what im asking is do u have any tips? been in this situation before?

also anyone feel like cheering me up because i'm crying and im quite upset and now i feel like a loser cause im asking people on the internet because im not good enough to go out there and actually get help

My friend says it's not!!!

And any other relevant swedish random trivia, thankyou :)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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Right sorry this is kinda a long story but i really need your help and top get this of my chest.

Background stuff: One of my best friends who is female and hetro has always been pro gay and like gay rights and stuff and always mocked friends who were homophobic and was being really disgusted. Oh yeah and we once had this friend that said if one of her friends was a lesbian she would be really scared tthat she fancied her and my best friend said that was big headed.

Anyway the other day we were in the study room by the photo copier and i did this really patronsiing face pinching thing on her cheeks which ive always done. I know thats bitchy but thats neither her nor there.

Anyway she jumped out of her skin and i could see she was really scared i looked into her eyes and she said stop it people might think we were weird. I knew the truth, I'm paranoid a lot of the time but this time something deep in my soul told me the truth.

Anyway so i got in a mood being really upset so then when she finally got it out of me that i thought that why she flinched she was all like omg i cant believe you would say this and all that because you know im ok with that. lets go to a public place and kiss anyway.

so anyway i gave her the benefit of the doubt but the other night ( cause i keep making jokes about it because i want to get it out so we can be friends again) she said she didnt want people gossiping about us.

even tho the only person that saw me touch her face was some guy who probably isnt the type of guy who would 'gossip' anyway.

NOT that theres anything to gossip abiout because OMG YES I TOUCHED HER ******* FACE! that is so sex these days!

so yeah now im scared to go anywahere near her because i think if i touch her she will get scared. that i fancy her which by the way i dont. shes a very attractive girl but im not into her in the slightest i like this other girl Lauren aw she's so cute :').

so for a start she lied to me, she made me feel bad/ like an idiot because i accoused her when all the time she was lying to me.

secondly its clearly a problem for her that i'm gay otherwise it wouldnt matter to her if i was straight ebcause it wouldnt make a difference.

I've known i was gay for years but didnt tell ger bvecuase i was scared of this from the start and now i regret that i did :(

i feeel our friendship is ruined :(

do you understand ? please someone give me some helpful advice im desperate :(

thankyou xx

between Dannii and Kylie Minogue?

Don't bother commenting if you're just going to hate on either of them

Thanks :)

I'm sure I just asked this but I can't find it so I'll ask it again. sorry if you answererd before.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oe4Ic7fHWf8

What do you think?:

I mean why is she being so intimate with a woman?

Is she basing it on real life experiances or is she just using bi- curiosity to sell records?

I just don't understand the song i mean its obviously a very intimate moment in the video but i dont understand it. i mean its ok whatever she is i'm just confused!

what are your views?

Dyke? I'm talking more to lesbians because it's more lesbian specifc obviously haha. I just hate the word, I mean i know it doesn't have as negative connotations as it used to but it's still horrible in my opinion. What is your opinion?

We're not that good friends but we speak now and again. She probably knows I like her, do you think this is alright?

Happy birthday!! Hope you had a good day :) xx

Do you think that's ok? Is it too personal? Should it just be

happy birthday!! :) x

What do you think?

Please don't say i'm being paranoid i already have one so called 'friend' who says that stuff!

Mine would be Dannii Minogue :)

Please give reasons and back up your opinions.

'butch'. I mean I'm not too sure about the strict definition, i get that 'fems' they're the ones that wear make up dress up and generally act like women. but people call me butch, ok I don't wear make-up and I don't do my hair ( I just wear it in a long plait because i have really long hair) but people still say I'm butch. I guess it's because I do look kinda masculine but I'm confused then, is butch just not wearing make up? I always imagined it to be more like the ones that have reeally short hair and dress kinda masculine ( I don't dress that feminine just more casual) and actually look like they're trying to be men and want to be men if you get me?

I'm mean i never try to act like a man or anything. What do you think/ How do you define butch? and what would you say i sound like?