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My daughter is 16 months and she has a cold. I think that she might have gotten my 1 month old son sick. He's been coughing and his nose is running. It also sounds like he has drainage because he'll be sitting there and kind of snort then cough and it sounds like a wet cough. I have the dosage chart for Acetaminophen. Should I give him some? I really don't want to get my babies out to go to the hospital because it's really cold and I don't want to get them out in the cold when they're sick if I don't have to so I thought I'd get some opinions here first. Thank you!

They told me at the hospital that it would fall off around 10 days.. He'll be a month old on the 14th. My daughter's fell off when she was 2 weeks old so I'm a little worried that his hasn't fallen off yet. Whenever I clean it with alcohol and a cotton ball there's always quite a bit of yellow liquid on the cotton ball. Is there anything wrong with him?

He's in basic training for the Army right now and whenever he goes to AIT, he gets to have his phone. He's cheated on me in the past and I have this very strong feeling he will do it again (and my feelings are usually right). I really want to know how I can have his texts messages forwarded from his phone to my phone without him knowing. I have a Samsung Intensity II with Verizon and he has a Galaxy with Boost Mobile. I mean, I can go online and check all his calls and stuff, but he texts way more than he calls, sooo yeah. Please help! I really don't care if I have to spend a ton of money for this.

When me and my husband first got together (we had been dating for about 4 or 5 months), he had slept with my sister. Both of them had told me all they did was make out, but I knew in the back of mind that they had done more. My sister didn't tell me that she slept with him until after we were married. If I had known sooner I probably wouldn't have married him. Then on New Years, my newborn daughter and I went to Oklahoma (we live in Texas) to see my mom to go to a church meeting for New Years. On the night before New Years Eve, my sister called me and said, "hey where are you at?" and I said, "I'm in Oklahoma. Why?" and she said, "Oh of course you'd be out of town whenever we're having a party!" and I said, "What?!" and she said, "Um... The party that your husband is throwing at your house?" so I called him and nicely told him, "I do not appreciate you throwing parties when I am out of town. That is so disrespectful. Please don't throw a party while I'm gone." and he said, "You're right, honey. I'm sorry. I won't throw a party. I love you!" well, after I got home on New Year's day, our garage smelled strongly like alcohol and cigarettes. I asked him if he had thrown a party and he freaked out and started yelling and said, "I DIDN'T THROW A PARTY! I HAD A FEW FRIENDS OVER AND WE DRANK A FEW BEERS AND SMOKED CIGARETTES IN THE GARAGE! WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS TRYING TO BE PISSED ABOUT SOMETHING?!" So I apologized and moved on. Well, after he went to work that night, his friend texted me and said that he needed to talk to me. I called him and he told me that my husband had thrown a party the night before New Years Eve and told all his friends not to tell me. So I confronted him about it, and he got soooo mad and was threatening to beat the crap out of his friend for telling me. He finally apologized to me and I asked if there was anything else that he needed to tell me and he said no. A few days later, I saw one of my husband's friend's girlfriend. I started talking to her and come to find out, my husband threw a party on New Years Eve as well. I confronted him about it and he got all pissed at me, then got over it and apologized. I asked him, yet again, if he had anything else that he needed to tell me. He said no, and I, yet again, believed him. Later that same day, I got on his email to find a statement from his credit card so I could pay it, and I find all these dirty emails from at least 7 girls that had posted adds on Craigslist looking for "a good time". He was saying stuff like, "I'll make you c*m. You want my huge c0ck?" and all this stuff. I confronted him about it and he said, "I don't have to explain sh!t to you." I just didn't understand why he was acting like this.. I mean, I've never cheated on him, I never lie to him, and I've always tried to be the best wife and mother that I can be. He told me, "I didn't do anything with anybody while you were gone. I promise. I sent some girls emails and barely any of them replied and when they did reply I felt bad so I didn't reply back." Which was a lie by the way.. "Please forgive me. I love you and our daughter so much. I don't want to lose you guys." so we had a deep talk and he "told me the truth about everything" that had ever happened in our relationship. I was proud of him for finally telling me the truth. Well, last night, I was talking to an old friend, and somehow we got on the subject of him and her talking. She told me that he had asked her "would you ever hook up with me?" and repeatedly tried flirting with her. He also asked her if she wanted to party with him on New Years Eve. She told me she always shot him down. And I completely trust her. Then I called my brother-in-law to talk to him about this stuff, and he told me that on New Year's Eve he was calling him to get girls numbers so "his friend" could hook up with them. Then, one of his friends told me that my husband had put an add on Craigslist looking for a girl to have sex with and put his friends number down so I wouldn't find out. He also said that the night before my husband left for basic training, my husband had asked him, "have any girls called you about that add on Craigslist?" And after all this, I got online and looked at his call record on his phone and there were calls to multiple numbers that I didn't recognize on New Years Eve from about 11 at night to 5 in the morning. All I want is to know the truth so I can move on from this.. He is in basic training for the Army right now. I don't want to leave him. He really is a nice guy, he just has faults.. I just want to know everything so I can move on from this and we can make our marriage stronger.. If we want to talk, we have to write letters, so how do I go about

I had my baby 4 days ago, and I know it takes some time for the breast milk to come down, but what are some things that I can drink or eat to help me produce more milk right now? I hate feeding my baby formula, but I just can't feed her enough :( Help please!

My doctor says that my little girl should be here in about a week! :D I'm so excited, but at the same time, I'm freaking out. I literally shake and start sweating when I think about it. I'm worried that something will go wrong, I'll start freaking out from the pain and yell at people, that I'll pass out or throw up or something, just that kind of stuff.. Can some of you nice ladies give me any advice or tell me stories or anything to calm me down? :/

My husband is in the Army and he just got conformation that he's going to be stationed at Fort Bragg, North Carolina. I was just wondering if anyone can tell me what the weather is like year-round there and what the area is like. We're having a baby in a month, so I'd also like to know if it's a safe area and if there is fun stuff for little kids to do around there. Also, I'm from the panhandle of Texas, so am I going to have a big cultural shock moving there?

Thanks :)

This is my first pregnancy so I pretty much freak out about every little thing that happens, so I'm sorry if this question seems stupid, but for the past few days I've been having so much discharge that I have to wear panty liners so I don't have to change my underwear every few hours. And I'm having an insane amount of pressure in my lower abdomen and I'm so uncomfortable that I don't even want to move. What's going on?

My doctor called me and told me that I'm Anemic and gave me a prescription for iron pills or something. My mom told me that she was Anemic when she was pregnant with my sister, but I'm still a little worried. Is it bad to be Anemic while pregnant or is it not that big of a deal?

Ok so my fiance has a 1995 Mustang GT 5.0L and he is super proud of it. I mean this car is perfect. No problems at all and a beautiful electric blue paint job. My fiance works on it all the time and says it's his baby. Well, I'm pregnant and it's going to be hard to get a baby in and out of a mustang so we are looking to sell the mustang and get a family car (sadly). There's this guy that is so desperate for my fiance's mustang and the super charger that he hasn't put in yet that he is offering him a 2004 Dodge Stratus, a 2001 Chevy Silverado, and $1000 cash. My boyfriend and I both feel that this guy is hiding something. I mean, a car and a truck that are both newer and $1000 cash for one mustang and a super charger? Should we go ahead and try to do this trade or do you think it sounds too sketchy? And if we do this trade what are some things we should check for that could be wrong with the cars this guy wants to trade?

I've been having cramps for the past week (no bleeding or anything, though). They feel like period cramps, but a little different. They have been getting progressively worse (especially today), and I'm getting kind of worried. My baby has been moving around and kicking like normal and everything, but I'm still worried. Can anyone tell me what's going on?

Today, an acquaintance of mine told me that she could tell I was pregnant not only from seeing my big belly, but also by looking at my face. I thought she meant that my face was getting a little chubbier, but when I asked her what she meant, she said "Your nose is bigger. I'm not saying you have a big nose, but during pregnancy women's noses get bigger." lol I have never heard this in my life. Is she crazy or is this actually possible?

My fiance and I decided we're naming our daughter Jadee (JAY-dee) Raye.

My sister says it sounds hickish lol I think it sounds cute :) What do you think?

Ok are the kids on here just absolutely horrible or are all children like this these days? "I'm 12 and want to lose my virginity!" "I'm 13 and I think I'm pregnant!" "I think my 24 year old boyfriend got me pregnant! I'm 15!". These things scare me! I'm going to try my hardest to not make my baby turn into one of these children, but is it inevitable? Please ease my mind :(

I'm 20 weeks and for the past week or so I've been able to feel little kicks :) My fiance is jealous because he wants to feel it too lol so I was just wondering when we'd be able to feel the baby on the outside of my tummy. Thanks!

I'm 20 weeks and it is just impossible for me to sleep! I can't get comfortable and I'm always hot. My family won't let me turn the air conditioner on as cold as I want it so I sleep with a box fan blowing right on me, but I'm still so hot and uncomfortable. Are there any tips that anyone can give me about getting comfortable enough to get some decent sleep?

I've always been a paranoid type of person, but since I got pregnant, I've super paranoid. I'm always looking over my shoulder and I always feel like someone's watching me. Right now I'm home alone and I'm constantly looking at my bedroom door to make sure noone's coming in. And I've been really jumpy for the past few weeks. Is it normal to feel paranoid and scared alot during pregnancy?

I'm 5'3" and before I got pregnant I weighed about 113 lb. I'm almost 20 weeks and I weigh about 123 lb. My doctor says I should gain 20 to 30 pounds during my pregnancy. I'm trying to eat healthy, but it's kind of hard to because my family loves unhealthy food lol.. Have I gained too much or am I alright?

I'm 19 weeks pregnant and my doctor told me to rest for a while because I've been having some problems. I feel sooo lazy.. I'm always tired and I'm getting a tummy which I've never had before.. Is anyone else pregnant or has anyone been pregnant and started getting depressed from all this fat laziness? Is this a normal way to feel? :(

So my morning sickness has been gone for quite some time now and this morning I threw up bile. That didn't really bother me, but what did bother me was the fact that there was some blood. :/ There wasn't a ton of blood but there was a little bit. Is this really bad or should I even be worrying?