Sex Drives.. I this normal?
My husband is 29 and I'm 23 my sex drive is way more than his.
Sometimes we don't have sex for 2-3 months. Is it that he's getting older and is it wrong for me to want it more..
My husband is 29 and I'm 23 my sex drive is way more than his.
Sometimes we don't have sex for 2-3 months. Is it that he's getting older and is it wrong for me to want it more..
wolfpac85
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as guys get older they lose their sex drives, proven fact, for women it is the exact opposite. for your husband in particular, he is only 29 so that is a little bit young for this to be happening, if this is troubling you i would ask him about it and if he doesn't know what you mean or doesn't seem to realize that he is doing this ask him to consult his doctor about it because these kinds of problems can be indicators of something more serious such as cancers, prostate problems, or chemical imbalances.
Anonymous
No, it isn't wrong for you to want it more. You could want to have sex every day as long as you have the energy and that would be 'normal'. 2-3 months is a very long time to wait. I hate to say this but maybe he is having sex with someone else? Or maybe he has something very stressful or traumatic even going on in his life right now. Do you both communicate about your feelings? Talk to him and see if you can find out if there is something wrong, something bothering him. Let him know that his lack of interest in sex worries you.
Good luck!
Special K
No it is not wrong for you to want to have more sex with your husband.. What's wrong with him. I would hope that he isn't getting it from somewhere else... Do some investigating of your own if you think that he may. Ever try talking to him about it? We cannot be afraid to communicate with our mates. That's how a lot of marriages fail because we fail to keep the lines of communication open. You just don't wake up one day and decide that you aren't going to have sex, something had to have transpired for him to lose his drive assuming he had one in the past. Check into it.
hector m
all i can say is that it is not the age. i am 33 and my girl is 27 and i have more of a sex drive than her.,
shyhonney
Maybe he has a medical issue. That is what im doing for my husband because he doesn't seem to want it anymore. Which pisses me off. life goes on eh?