What should I do? Ladies advice greatly appreciated.?
Really lengthy story, please read all or don't help at all.
I met this girl a few weeks ago through my recruiter. Her name is Ana, and she needed help with math tutoring for a test. He suggested I help her, so I agreed. We all went out for lunch.
So the first tutor session came, and we held it at my house. I helped her out, and we studied for about three hours. Ana works over night as a waitress, so she never gets to go out with her friends. I asked her if she wanted to go do something, so we did. We went to the mall. After the food court, we went to a movie and I payed for our tickets. She even picked the movie (it was that damn G Force, and I wanted to see Public Enemies...). We played a few games in the arcade while waiting for showtime. The movie sucked, but we both had a great time. After the movie, she asked me if I would go play some basketball with her. Of course I said "yes." We went to a park around 10 pm, and started playing ball. She then got a text, and seemed a little upset. I asked what the problem was, and she said it was her BOYFRIEND being jealous. The lights turned off at the park soon, so we left. She took me home around 11 pm. Along the way, she called and spoke with her BOYFRIEND. It was in Spanish, so I didn't understand. She didn't tell me much, but she said he lives in a town about four hours away from here.
Two days ago, we were supposed to tutor again, but she text me and said she didn't want to. But, she still asked me if I wanted to hang out around 7 pm. I said sure, and she came over later. We went and played some mini golf. After having a blast there for a couple hours, we went and played some bowling. I covered the golf, she got the bowling. Things were going great, and then she busted out her phone to text her boyfriend again. I was disappointed, and it showed. She asked if I was tired. After a quick chat with my friend, I was in a great mood in no time. Finally around midnight, she took me home. As I got out of the car, I explained that I wasn't tired earlier, but upset because of texting her BOYFRIEND while we hung out.
We goofed off so much during our dates, and we shared many laughs and smiles. We also have a lot of stuff in common. She's so smart and beautiful, but I'm just so confused.
Can we be more than friends? Can I replace her current BOYFRIEND that lives hundreds of miles away? What should I do? And please don't tell me to "grow a pair" as I already have a pair.
I'm 19 and she's 20, just an fyi.
Thanks for reading, and hopefully helping.