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Large breasts - should I be self-conscious?

I'm a 34DD and five feet tall. My boobs are very large for my body, and as a result I feel like my boobs arent as perky as they "should" be for a 22 year old. They don't point down or anything, but I feel like because women who are on TV or in movies all have perky boobs, men are going to think I look gross.

Is it all in my head or do men really expect big breasts to all look like they do in porn and on TV?

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  • 2 decades ago
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    If a man thinks the way you described, he isn't worth the effort to turn your head to look at him.

    Women need to feel free to accept their bodies without shame or being put into catagories.

    Through out history, the female frame has been venerated in all its forms, from rounded hips and belly to boyish sticks. In my opinion, if man was created in the image of God then by golly, WOMAN was created in the image of Goddess. You are a perfect female, no matter what you look like.

  • 2 decades ago

    I wouldn't be self conscious, but thats me, if they are giving you problems maybe you could see about a breast reduction.

    Sometimes I wish mine were bigger but they aren't and I don't want implants .. anyways .. yes some guys have this distorted veiw of what a woman really looks like .. lol

    Don't worry that you don't look like some movie starlet or porn actress. Just be you, I know there is some guy out there that is going to think you are absolutely beautiful just the way you are !!!

    But thats probably after you tell him your your eyes are up here not down there. lol Hey I wish you all the best .. take care !!!

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I'm not sure if you have ever tried this or not but making breasts look smaller can be done a few ways. One is, wear a sports bra over your regular bra, also you can layer clothes, wear like a spegetti strapped shirt under your other shirt, it makes them look smaller. Another thing you can do, is spend 10 minutes a day in the mirror looking at yourself naked (I know it sounds crazy) but instead of looking at the bad things.0, decide what you LIKE about yourself, it helps you get over things you might think are "gross" Hope I helped a little.

  • 2 decades ago

    yes guys definitely like big boobs. i'm surprised you're even asking this question. like what some of the people here mentioned already, you should only worry about your breasts if it starts to cause some health risks like back problems. other than that people will stare at you because they're only fascinated with your boobs not because they think it's abnormal.

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  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    Dont feel bad about it. I would love to have larger breasts im 16 and a 32A. Guys dont give you that same "look".

    Dont worry about it everyone has a different body.

  • 2 decades ago

    my boobs are 48ddd and im only 5"4 1/2 and i never had any complaints...honey dont worry about it. guys like big boobs!

  • 2 decades ago

    You should be proud, I am! I have large breasts myself and I've always loved them. I stand out in the best way and I enjoy it. The twins have gotten me out of tickets, fights with my man, have gotten things carried to my car, etc,etc,etc. Love every part of youself, once you do other people will to.

  • Anonymous
    2 decades ago

    No. You shouldn't be self-conscious about certain things. Be comfortable in your own skin, and that'll shine on the outside!

  • 2 decades ago

    If you don't mind it, I wouldn't worry what others think. But it sounds like it could cause back problems and stuff like that.

  • 2 decades ago

    Everyone should become comfortable with their own body. If you feel that your breasts are too large and they put a strain on your spine, you might consider breast reduction surgery. I had to friends that did and they are very glad they did.

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