I had my "big" birthday this week and still no date. NO one seems interested in me, which is depressing.

Aww! Don't worry too much about it. You're awesome, and some time soon a guy will come along who sees that. There's someone out there for you. As the saying goes, love comes when you least expect it. So just enjoy yourself and put your mind on other things you love, and everything will fall into place.

Best of luck! And don't waste too much time trying to figure out guys, they're just too tricky, lol :).

Well.....men do of course enjoy sex and MOST will give up on a relationship if you do not have sex with them. Or maybe you show them a sign that you don't want anything serious. Are you really pretty and intelligent, but are on the immature side. I'm not trying to be rude. I don't know you, but it's something to think about.

What do you mean by "big" birthday - you are old enough to vote or drink or collect social security or what?

Don't worry about it. Just keep being yourself and sooner or later a good man will come along that will be a good match.

I have a cousin who found a wonderful man through eharmony, corny and desparate as that sounds.

Nothing is wrong. Just keep being you and the right one will come along when you least expect it. Don't be so harsh on yourself. Take care and smile!

Maybe it IS something you're not doing. Are you caring? loving? Sex might be VERY important to some and even to most... But what about the rest?

BTW, happy birthday! :)

There is nothing wrong with you--it's them! Don't be too hard on yourself. In time, you will meet someone--a nice guy, when you least expect it. It has happened to me.

its never wrong to want to save urself for the rt one. don't worry the rt one will respect u for that

Hang in there, there's usually always someone for everybody.