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How do you get your sibling to understand that their spouse wants a divorce?

My brother and SIL have decided to divorce. They have been married 14yrs. My SIL is playing games with my brother's head! She tells him she wants a divorce BUT then plays games like she wants to stay together. She is always asking for money even though he don't live there anymore. She makes more money then he does so there is NO reason for her to NEED his money! She is the one who wants the divorce. How do I get him to understand she is just playing with his head?!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If he has not figured it out by now

    or listened to you then best thing to do

    is back off and let him live his own life.

    Believe me I know how hard it is but in

    the long run he will just resent you for getting in the middle and it will drive you crazy.Just be there for him.

    that is all you can do cause he is adult and has to make his on mind up.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell him frankly and directly. If he still dun get it.... let it be.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Stay out of it. It is not your business.

  • 1 decade ago

    You cant...He will figure it out sooner or later...

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