is this rude?

yes that girl was rude

yes you should have just said "meeting"- aren't people on here impossible?! its a good lesson...

but, yes, that girl should have been more considerate... for sure...

If you are asking this question here, it's probably because you already believe that she was rude and want someone else to justify that.

From what you've let us know, it does seem rude.

But, it depends on the relationship you have with the girl. You know her better than we do.

But to be honest, if you were in a bible study, you probably all had books with you. So she probably knew you left them in her car, and it doesn't seem that she gave you a chance to get them before she took off.

Of course if she is a real friend of yours, and not just someone you are forced to mingle with, she may have thought she'd give them to you later.

(My opinion, it doesn't seem like you are close with those girls. If you were you would have at least said bye to eachother, and talked about getting together again later.)

I'm sure it was a mistake and that she assumed you would be getting a ride back with your boyfriend. She probably didn't even realize that your stuff was in her car.

Also, you should try and look at this from her position. Say she did remember that you were going to get a ride from her and then it took you 5-10 minutes to get out to the car (you mentioned that you were detained). She could have thought that you were getting a ride back with your boyfriend and neglected to tell her which would cause her to think you were rude.

Ultimately I think it was just one big misundertanding.

I think that, yes your friend should have checked if you were coming. However, since you came over with a bunch of other girls, she might have just forgotten you had been with them. I do absent minded things all the time, so I would understand if she didn't mean to. Whether it was rude depends on whether she did it on purpose. Don't get too mad till you check with your friend. Oh, and looking at what you wrote, you did a good job picking your boyfriend.

I don't know if I would classify this as rude. I just think it was an oversight on their part. Ultimately, you have to be responsible for your own things. They may not have known at all that you left your binder and stuff in their car. At any rate, I would not intentionally leave someone behind if they had left their persoanl affects in my backseat. Let's didn't realize that they were driving away with your stuff. Did you tell them that you were riding with your boyfriend after Denny's? If not, it was alaso inconsiderate of them to leave you behind.

Perhaps your friend tried to find you before she left?

Do you have her phone number? Can you call her and ask to make arrangements to pick up your things?

What she did wasn't really 'rude', maybe inconsiderate. She may not have noticed your books, etc in the car.

Next time, you may want to take the stuff in with you when you go to the restaurant. This way, you will have your stuff and no

worries.

It is possible they mistook that you were heading home with your boyfriend.....it is also possible they just forgot and got engrossed with a conversation.

But yes they should of asked if you were right to go now or if you would be getting a lift home with your boyfriend. When you see the person next time just say I am sorry I took so long with the guy, do you still have my paperwork? I am glad my boyfriend was there to give me a lift home or you could just say....Hey what happened on such and such a night? I turned around and you were gone.

You should be able to tell if she ment to be rude or not by her behaviour next time you see her.

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Maybe they saw you with your boyfriend and assumed you had a ride home? And maybe they figured they would get you your papers later. I wouldn't think people in a bible study group would intentionally be rude. Might have been a misinterpretation.

Sounds as though they got fed up waiting, or didn't know that your stuff was in the car. Could have told you to get your things out before they left.

The driver was doing you a favour by letting you ride along with them, you held them up.

Both wrong.

I'd say that was a bit rude.

They probably just made the assumption you would be get ride from your bf.

I personally would have asked if you need a ride back to your car.