I need serious help...?

just tell her exactly what you said that you need her. Tell her, "look I am going through a really hard time and you are the only person that I trust, I really can't stand the thought of losing our friendship. i need you. Please understand this, it isn't you it is just the situation that is going on." and see what she says. If she doens't respond, you don't need friends like that in your life anyway. I have a pretty good feeling she'll understand though.

I think this question is better left to be answerd by a qualified school counselor or a minister. It sounds like you need more help than a friend can give. Also, it sounds like you are dealing with some really hard emotional stuff, so as hard as it is, don't ask people on the internet for advice. You need an adult who is capable of being a resource. Try a counselor or a minister. If you are embarrassed then leave the counselor @ school a note and explain that you "need to talk, but you don't want anyone to know and could the office fake a trip to the principle's office?" This works. I know, I have done this note thing. I am now in my 20s.

I only get mean to people who are mean.

First of all, take it easy. This isn't going to be solved in one day. The best thing you can do is try to get yourself to relax and examine the situation calmly.

What has been said, is already said. What can be said hasn't occurred yet. Now you can take care in what you say.

I would suggest that once you have calmed down, think of your own way to say that you were not ready to deal with what she was going through and that you regret saying it. Tell her (again, in your own words) that you would like to still be friends and will try to handle things better. You should try to arrange a time and place where you two can be undisturbed and free of distractions.

Once you have the sit-down with her, you have to resign yourself to the fact that her reaction is out of your control and be willing to accept how things turn out. Everything will be okay no matter what happens.

What did you say to her? That might help when trying to answer your question. Maybe because you've shared so much personal info thru texting, she doesn't know how to react in person. But it's really hard to answer without knowing what you said to her.

I think that you should try talking to someone close to you.. maybe not her. It sounds like you are having a hard time right now.,... hang out with her one day and ask her what is going on..

good luck

Sorry about the "step' thing i totoaly understand it. As for the friend, ask her why she is saying she doesnt need you anymore, and maybe you can work things out. Goodluck.

I'm really sorry but I dont understand your sittuation at all. Except you and you dad and soon to be step mom

Well apologize to your friend and see how it turns out. Tell her that you were nervous and said things that you shouldnt have . She might forgive you!

What is the question?

please don't be so emotional ask ur questions in a vivid manner dear.....sorry for not answering........bye...