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Whats wrong with me? I can't get a girl.?

I tried everything but I just can't get a girl. I asked out 3 girls within a month and all three of them saying "Your not my type". I'm just a hopeless romantic I can't inpress a girl becuase I'm too scared sometimes. All of my friends have girlfriends two of them have more that one girfriend. I'm such a loser

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  • 1 decade ago
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    you're not a loser, that's for sure. it happens to many guys.

    the first thing you need is confidence. girls, or people in general, are more comfortable around people who are comfortable and confident with themselves. once you've developed some confidence, you just need to be yourself. no one likes fake people. and from what it sounds like, you're pretty insecure and desperate. stop being desperate too. you have to be patient and let the girl come to you as far as presence is concerned. you can't expect the first girl or two you ask out to say 'yes.' so don't ask a girl out for the sake of having one. take some time to think things through and see if you like her and if she may like you. don't be hasty with asking a girl out. with confidence and patience you'll find the right girl. maybe you should just back off for a little while though. and something really important....don't try to keep up with your friend's or other people. it'll just end up stressing you out and making you frantic. no one wants to date an anxious, unconfident guy.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    First, YOU'RE NOT A LOSER!

    Many ppl have confidence problems and don't get a girlfriend for the sake of having one, do it because you like the person. Maybe some of those pimp friends can help you out? Be yourself then yuo won't need to impress anyone, just be confident and you're good. Dance w/ ppl at dances and so on.

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  • 1 decade ago

    You're not a loser, not by any means. You just need not to try so hard. Don't worry, a girl will come along for you.

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  • 1 decade ago

    your not a loser sweetie i have a friend with a similar problem and ill tell you what i tell him

    your special lady has just not made her way around to you yet! dont worry, shes out there, and dont try too hard when you least expect it she'll appear!

    good luck sweetie 8)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Be yourself, be yourself, be yourself! Women will flock to men who are comfortable in their own manhood. Women tend to view security as a MAJOR factor in choosing a mate, and you sound a little insecure, so just gain more self-esteem and get secure. When you start loving yourself, you open the door for others to love you!

  • 1 decade ago

    Trust me your not a loser!! Maybe your going after the wrong girls. If a girl declines a date dont worry about it, youll find a girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Don't find love, let love find you. She will come when you least expect it. Don't worry and just relax, have fun with life. Girls are drama queens, trust me, i am one.

  • Cassie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    ur not a loser, just give it time and u'll find the right girl

  • 1 decade ago

    don't give up. trust me there has to be a couple of girls that are like in love with you right now but they don't wanna tell you and you don't wanna tell them sooo... just give it a shot.

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