Girls only?

No 2. It more-or-less exactly happened to a good friend and destroyed her mental stability - she had test after test for STDs and HIV because he had been picking up rough trade all through their marriage.As well, she still, 10 years later, doubts every man who says he is attracted to her.

Mind you, if your wife in the same set up tells you she's found lurve with a woman, I can see that would destroy most men too.

The first option happens so often that it isn't a surprise in most cases.

The third leaves you the choice of your sister and your husband. Which one to gun down, I mean. LOL.

I'd have to say my husband "accidently" impregnanting my sister. That would be like a double slap in the face because it's supposed to be two people that you're supposed to trust immensely.

With number 1, I'd get a new best friend and a new husband, with number 2, I'd feel like my life was a life, but you can always move on and find what's right for you. But number 3, you're being deceived by not only family, but also the person who swore to honor, love and be faithful to you and a child has to be the result of his "accident".

Getting my sister pregnant is worst. It shows that the husband is irresponsible in (a) having an affair with my sister and (b) not taking precautions and (c) doing all this "accidentally". Being gay (2) or falling in love with my best friend (1), by contrast, are matters of fate that I wouldn't so much blame my husband for.

OMG!!... Its a toss up between 2 and 3 for me as to which would be worse. 2 because after awhile your husbands love child would be your niece THAT would be very hard to deal with...AGggh that would be messed up Jerry Springer stuff

HOWEVER #3 is just disgusting.. 20years and 3 kids later of lying and betrayal.. AND being GAY.. that would be rough..infact that would be what I would choose as worse out of all of them.. Thats NASTY.. I don't necessarily have problem with gays (to each their own) BUT I would have a GIANT problem if it were my husband/ father of my kids!!! The risk he would have put us in for contracting of HIV/AIDS and stds in general is SOO high. OMG I couldn't imagine that the man I have been giving BJs too for 20 years...Finding out its been in a mans azz all that time Phuck thats sick.. I think I'd go homicidal on his azz!!

3 for sure HANDS DOWN THE WORST!!

Husband getting my sister pregnant. I would feel betrayed more by her than any best friend or man.

Its a hard choice though.

He got your sister pregnant. That's the worse. He si cheating you, he is gay, you have three children and you have someone to talk to. Living with such a person will ruin your life. Get him on track or divorce.

i can't bother choosing because all of them are worse & i would hurt him so damn bad, sh*t, ya'll think lorena bobbit was bad, i'd do the same thing except i wouldn't throw it out the window, i'd grind the damn thing in the blender & make him drink it. 1.) my friends are closer to me then my family 3.) i cant stand my sister & i don't wanna catch whatever her nasty a** boyfriend got 2.) he waited 20 damn years & put our children through humiliation. hell no to all three of them.

The third one, because family's all you really have in the world today.

If my husband (if I had one haha) left me for my best friend and she took him - then she isn't a good enough friend of mine to be in my life any ways.

If my husband (again if I was married) told me he was gay after being married to me for 20 years, I'm not going to say I would be happy about it but I'm sure I would support him for the sake of the kids, coming out is a difficult thing and I;m sure he would be as confused as me.

So as far as I'm concerned - the third one is the worst of the three.

#3. The other two have at least a shred of trying to be honest, no matter how hurtful. Saying he accidently got your sister pregnant is an insult to a person's intelligence.

That he got your sister pregnant.