Is it possible someone can just up?

i think it depends on the circumstances .. mybe that person is depressed and cant see any other way round things .. mybe they are running away from something , there could be alot of reasons for this thou i find it hard to believe that some1 can turn off there feelings like a switch ..

I think it is just a stage you go through... to be honest with you if what you had was true love then i do not undertstand how you can just walk out on the person you loved....did she give you a reason? if not then ask her what you did wrong and hope for the best.

love is not something u turn of and on u love sum1 u love them for life lust and being in love can go but love is somthing more love is what keeps people together till death the way u love a family member and the way u love a partner will have no differences love is one.and it never stops!lust does.xx

I think peoples feelings may diminish over time, though they never speak up and tell their partner straight away and leave it until they come to a decision and then tell them. Or they may be with someone they think they love then start having doubts and come to realise that they don't love them and that they aren't right for them.

well i stoped loving my boyfriend because he changed all of a sudden. so my feelings changed and i didn't like him anymore. I think not but it could seem like no reason at first but it could be a lot of things like unable to commit, or getting bord with the reltionship.

so no not no reason, all thought at first it seems like it.

why do you ask?????? ^^

the hard fact is they didnt really love that person in the first place

i have noticed (mostly on here) that when someone realizes that they do not love someone anymore, it is usually because they are in love with someone else instead.