Husband scared me I know I need to leave- where to start?

well i think that you have to get a good lawyer, explain everything to him and then he'll definatley help you out in the best way possible. Most likely you'll get custody for your little girl. But you can't stay with him any longer. before anything let him know that its not working out. and tell him that its best for the both of you and that you'll let him see your girl all the time. If he flips out and goes crazy then call the cops. then you'll definatley get custody for your child, and you'll be free :]

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I think you need to look into what your rights are. Call the consulate for the country you are from and tell them you are in a potentially dangerous situation for you and your daughter and find out what you are legally allowed to do. I can't imagine that if you took off with your daughter back home bc you felt threatened, that you would be in the wrong. First and foremost your #1 responsibility to to protect your child from a bad situation, even if its her own father. If it were me I'd jump on a plane and go to my parents or a close friend/family member and leave the jerk a note. I'd be afraid of him as well, and he way overreacted in terms of the books. It was an accident and you did not mean to do it. It sounds like you are also in a loveless marriage which is not good for you or your Daughter. Seriously consider getting out right away. Good luck to you.

Your husband needs a serious reality check. Obviously, he does not understand safety AT ALL! All it takes is one time for something tragic to happen. I would talk to him about being more attentive when he is in charge with them. Then, if things do not change, scare the crap out of him. Have him watch your daughter in the front yard, then have a friend/trusted relative sneak your daughter in to the side yard. Then casually go outside and ask where your daughter is. It will scare him but it will teach him how fast something dangerous can happen.

if you have a job honestly sit down and start a budget of how much you can afford to pay for rent, food, electricity, etc....all of the NECESSARY expenses. if you can do it. next step is go on craigslist for whatever city you live in and find a garage apartment (which normally has all bills paid) and move out. if you can afford a little more then start shopping around for a place. he sounds like he needs some anger management. if he was that close to hitting you (intentionally or not) you need to leave ESPECIALLY since you have a little one.

Oh dear. Contact your family and get all the support you can. See if you and your daughter can stay at family's or friends' houses for a while.

Pack your things and take money, important papers like passports, IDs, birth certificates and such along.

If he is violent, you should do this when he is not around.

Contact your local women's shelter for tips and advice as well. Good luck!

It sounds like you threw those books out on purpose.

NOT ACCIDENT

Just take the child, and fly back to your home country.

Easy...

Money? Go to the bank and take the money, and leave

Don't wait for days, or try to make a plan.... just go.

It is not child abduction because it is your child,

And when you get to your home country change your child's citizenship to yours. And never communicate with the husband again.

Well it's not much good your daughter seeing that either, you must have family you can go to?

Perhaps tell him you want to take your daughter home for a visit and then sort out what you could do.

If you don't love anymore, the answer is simple.... Get out before he does hit you! There are shelters that will take you solely on mental abuse!!!

You need to get out there as soon as possible.Tell your family,good friends,report to police what your situation now.You need to be strong and your child.I can relate you...

what country?

you need to leave now he'll abuse you and your daughter

you need to get to the us conselet in the country that your in