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Will she cheat again, the second time around?
My cousin's wife had a disastrous first marriage; she & her husband both cheated. After divorcing, she met & married my cousin 15 years ago.
She's very outgoing, the "life of the party" (without being vulgar), & has many friends, of both sexes. (My cousin is also friendly but a little more reserved.) She travels some for work, sometimes with a colleague (male or female), he doesn't. She also occasionally has drinks after work with colleagues (but it's never late).
They "seem" happy but lately I've been getting a weird "vibe" around her. They're heading for their 40s; what about mid-life crisis?
My cousin is a real sweetheart; he would never cheat. I'm not so sure about her.
What about that saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater."?
I know it's their marriage but I worry for my cousin. He's one of the "nice" guys!
5 Answers
- TeenieLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
I can only speak for me i cheated on my first husband only because he cheated on me first. I swore i would never cheat again because of all the hurt and confusion it causes. I have been married now 29 1/2 years to my third husband and i have never cheated on him even though he has cheated on me. That saying once a cheater always a cheater really PI$$ES me off because that isn't so some of us learn from our mistakes.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
None of your business.
They have a 15 year record of success. If she were a cheater, she would have by now. I think you are sweet to care about your Cousin's happiness, but avoid "crossing the line".
- Steven KLv 41 decade ago
If you cousin needs a wife with this personality, and lives happily with him, then even some cheating can have positive effect on their common life. The "life" is such a complicated thing.
- jimrichLv 71 decade ago
It all depends on the relationship skills they both have or are willing to learn. Relationship skills teach folks how to behave and how to solve issues to make a good, lasting relationship. They both have to learn and use these skills/techniques/methods or failure will most likely occur.
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