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I invited 2 friends to YMCA for sauna, I am a member, they are guests, am I expected to pay for them?
As a member of Y, I can invite up to 2 people for a day, but have to pay $4 for each person. So I invited 2 friends of mine to warm up in Y's sauna. They were happy to accept the invitation, but also expected me to pay for them.
What do you think, who is paying, them or I? I still think it's their own responcibility, although it is my invitation.
11 Answers
- kincaid1Lv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
You pay because you invited. If I didn't want to pay for them, I would have offered that option but then added that they needed to pay a $4 fee. This way they could decline and not think you were paying for them.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
If you invited them, it's your treat. It's the same as inviting someone to lunch-- you would be expected to pay. You're lucky that $4 each isn't terribly expensive. Next time, handle it this way: "Hey, I'm a member of the 'Y', and I can invite a guest to use the sauna. It'll cost $4. Would you be interested in coming?"
- 1 decade ago
It depends on the wording. If you say, "I'd love to take you to the sauna to relax!" then that implies you're paying. If you ask, "Would you like to meet me at the Y one day? You'd only need to pay $4 for a guest pass." then obviously they will be paying. In this situation, I would pay. Next time be a little more clear that this is just a get together, not something you're hosting.
- Jm eLv 61 decade ago
You invited, so you are required to pay. Inviting someone makes you the host, and a host always pays for their guests. And holy cow, it was only $8! It isn't like you were expected to pay for their dinners and hotel rooms!
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- TBRMInsanityLv 61 decade ago
If you offered the invitation and expect your friends to come then you should pay, but if your friends invited themselves they should pay.
It is like a BBQ, if you invite people over, you pay for the food. If the neighbourhood is holding the BBQ at your place, they should bring their own food.
- 1 decade ago
I agree with you. If one of my friends had invited me, I would not think twice about paying my way.
- phopLv 51 decade ago
unless you had previously discused the payment issue (Dutch Treat, pay your own way ) than it would definatly be your treat to your friends
- 1 decade ago
I believe that if you are hosting them it is your responsibility!
Whats $8.00
Good company don't come cheap!
What goes around comes around..........