i found my mom and she wont reply what do i do?

Give her time. Have you talked to her before recently? Or is it all of a sudden that she is not responding to you? If it's the former, then she may be scared and not sure what to do. So just give her time to adjust and now that you put the ball in her court it is up to her to respond, there is nothing else you can do. She may be scared that if she does respond that she will be interfering in your life even though she is not... I have this problem from my formerly estranged father... So I would give her time to respond but maybe every few months or so give her an update on what's going on in your life.... I am sure she is probably over-joyed by them anyway...

You now need to be the adult. There are many feelings running through your moms head. She is without doubt embarrassed. She has been humiliated her entire life about her decision. It could have been for many reasons but the bottom line is at the time her choice was the best one for your benefit.

You need to get a bouquet of flowers and drive to her. You will then have the opportunity to sit down and express all your feelings. She will cry alot and it will be emotional for you too. Show her the young adult you have become and let her know you love her no matter what.

Tell her you never want seperation again and want to be close to her.

You need to be the strong one here. She will always feel shame. Comfort her doubts. Let her know you are not angry with her.

Go to her soon.

Put a period behind this and move on. She doesn't want to

get back into your life. If you must contact her then write her a letter and send it snail mail. Her computer may be down.

If you still do not receive a reply then you will know for sure.

She does not want to be back in your life dear. Sorry.

send her a letter in the post hard copy recorded delivery or registered post

Or better still take one step at a time.

1 send her a letter in the post hard copy recorded delivery or registered post

2 ask for a short reply

3 send one of your close friends to speak to her on your behalf

4 if she wants to meet then arrange time or

she may be an asian girl who wasnt suppose to get pregnant got the family living with her, how is she suppose to explain everything to them take your time and hang in there and sadly it may not be that she doesnt want to meet you may be she cannot just leave everything else in one instance.

IF YOU LIVE IN THE UK PLEASE WATCH EASTENDERS YOU MAY FIND YOUR ANSWER,

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b006m86d

THE LINK IS ABOVE JUST CLICK ON IT AND YOU WILL SEE THE TIMES.

GOOD LUCK