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If you fall in love with someone, Then?

you find out they are married, Is it wrong to keep loving them?

How can you stop loving? can end the relationship, yes, but does the love end?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I don't think that you can control ''love''. You fell in love with them before you found out they were married, but that doesn't negate all the little things that made you love them to begin with. I've found that anytime a relationship ends, it doesn't mean the love immediately ends, no matter the reason for the break-up. In time, it does lessen and fade. Eventually, it will weaken to the point that you might care for their happiness and well-being, but thinking of them doesn't happen nearly as often or produce the longing that it does now. Then you'll be free to love someone else.

  • 1 decade ago

    It is never wrong to love someone. You just cannot be with them, because we all need to respect the boundaries of marriage.

    It is not hard to end a relationship. There are many ways to do that. As for ending your love, well that just has to work its way out of your system, and that takes time. Yes, eventually, it does end for the most part. It can take years, but like all living things, it needs to be nourished to survive. Unless you obsess about this person, and live in the past, you will eventually be able to move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't know how quickly the love would end, but my relationship with them would end immediately. Over time the love would fade as well. Unless it's from a tragic circumstance (like death), I do believe the phrase "out of sight, out of mind"

  • 1 decade ago

    be mature about the situation and move on. u rather know now u have love for the person then to get hurt later on down the line.

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  • 1 decade ago

    You have to walk away from that relationship and love them from afar.

  • 1 decade ago

    You get over it and find other things to focus on.

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