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fiance going to work away..?

hi

im looking for some comfort i guess :) from any women out there who are/have been in my situation.

we have an 8 month old and my partner has just been given a job in the mines on a two weeks on two weeks off roster. its great money and a great oppurtunity, so i wouldnt stop him from doing it. and i know two weeks isnt really a long time, but ive never really lived alone, and im just freaking out a little bit. ive never liked being by myself at night, i know ill have my baby, but i feel protected and safe with my man here! i want to feel strong for our daughter, i want her to feel secure and safe... but i dont even feel secure!!

so im wondering, if anyone else has this living arangement, how long did it take you to get used to it, am i just worried about nothing, and do u have any helpful hints for getting used to it a bit faster and not listening for every little noise at night!?!

(i know some women lose their hubbys for months / a yr at a time in the army etc, i take my hat off to you because i could never do it - so sorry if i do sound a little pathetic moaning about 2 weeks at a time but like i say, its something ive never had to experience!)

:) xx

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    Get a big dog. Many kinds look out after the children, and serve to protect against burglars. Keep mace at hand in your home and when you go out. Learn some simple self defense moves by google searching online. Get a home security system when the money starts coming in. Take care !

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Well

    I couldn't afford a self defence course so I decided to learn some tecniques and moves from the internet. This a good system I bought http://www.goobypls.com/r/rd.asp?gid=563

    Have a nice day

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