Poll: Have you ever dated someone then look back on the relationship and be like WTF was I on during that date?

Hell yeah.

Ten years ago I dated this thirty-eight year old loser who lived with his mother. I'm pretty sure he was a virgin, even though he claimed he wasn't, because the first time we had sex he literally did not know where it went. To top matters off, he was mean and nasty. He would break up with me like every three days...like we were middle school students...and I would cry and plead for him to take me back. My father was diagnosed with terminal cancer at the time and he was such a jerk about it. His father had died in 1979 (I swear...and his family *still* hadn't moved on)!!! and he would say things like, "I can't go through this again." Go through what, idiot? It's MY father that's dying! Then when my Dad would be doing better, I'd say something positive, and he'd say, "Your father is going to die! Just accept it! He's going to die!" At the time I was overweight and *very* self conscious about it and whenever he was mad about something (and 90% of the time he wasn't even mad at me...he'd be mad because there was a lot of traffic or something) he'd start screaming at me and call me a fat b*tch. Finally after one of his stupid hissy fit break ups because he had a fight with his family and needed to take it out on me, I wouldn't take him back. He then stalked me for two years, sometimes calling me as many as twenty times in a row and hanging up. When my father died, he kept calling and leaving me stupid messages like "Sorry about your Dad! BYE!!!" Three days after my Dad's death I went out for dinner with my best friend and came home to two messages from him on my answering machine. The first was, "I'm just calling to see how you're doing." The second one was "WHY DON'T YOU GET A PERSONALITY YOU B*TCH!!!!" That was the last straw. I called the phone company and had my number changed. Two years ago I ran into him at a Chinese buffet. I'd lost all the weight I'd had on back when he knew me and I knew I looked good. But I wouldn't even so much as talk to him. So long loser. I don't know what the heck I was thinking.

Yep! My very first date was to a skating rink and I still look back on that and wonder why on Earth I agreed to go there when I didn't even know how to skate. Course, when I look back on it now I find it really amusing and I can laugh it off, but at the time it was sooo embarassing, I made such a fool out of myself in those couple hours.

YES. i 'dated' this kid in 8th grade and he was my first boyfriend supposedly, but we didn't do anything...like AT ALL. we only hugged never been on dates, never told our parents, and we 'loved' each other after we 'dated' for a day or somethig. I look back now and ask the question why.

Yes.

I went with a guy who called me names beat me up and wen i got pregnant he told me that wen i give birth i have to leave my baby at his hse and i have to visit everyday. Looking back he was an ugly as sin. No seriously. He was partially sighted wore thick glasses straight nose not a gentleman at all a theif and a man who told me that i was ugly. I can't believe i went with him. One day he saw me on a train and told that i have to walk on my knees to beg to take him back! Like i am gonna(!)

if you are reffering to (omg she is aweful i cannot belive i dates her) then YES, most have...a lot of us can regret who we dated after we have emotionally cleared our "rose coloured classes" and see the experience for what it was.

if you are reffering to (omg I acted completely retarded on my date) then YES, most have... most people get nervous and say ANYTHING to create convosation, we also put on personas to impress people that often backfire.

There is a full 3 years of WTF in my past where I have to seriously wonder about my sanity during that time.

Yup. i didn't even know this girl liked me so much, she said she would suck my dick dry.

Girls are ******* weird.

Yess!!