My husband surprise me after marriage with two months that he wants his 18 year old son to leave with us?

You will never separate him from his son. You need to either accept him or start planning your life without him and his son. If you ask him to give up his son he may do it temporarily but eventually he will hate you for it.

His son will always be a priority in his life. If you didn't like children...you shouldn't have married a man with a child.

The money he pays to support his son is none of your business.

You should have considered all of this PRIOR to marriage. Now you can either live with it or leave it.

I know your plight. But the problem is this. Man with child....child number one. this is a no brainer and you can't expect anything different. You could have taken all this into consideration if you don't like children as much as you say. This family includes him, his son and you in that order. Grin and bare it or you be the one to leave.

You posted about this issue a bit ago....my reply is the same (and I still don't see a question in there)...

You are free to tell your husband if his adult child will be living with you two, then he has to earn his keep or he cannot stay...that means paying some rent, doing some chores, and overall being a contributing member of the household...

If he wants to let the kid sponge off of y'all and rule the roost, then you can tell him you won't live there as long as his leech of a child does...make it clear he needs to require the kid to behave like a responsible adult, or he can deal with the kid on his own...

Children are a part of any parent's life..sounds like you need to address many issues with your new husband..

So just tell him you don't want to live with his son and that if he wants his boy to live there that you will get your own place nearby.

You don't have to tell him " No " or interfere with their relationship but rather just take charge of yourself.