I hate to have sex with my husband what should I tell him?

I had this with my ex husband. I hated to even think about the sex with him. We tried the councling and all that, but it was not working for me, I learned that i loved him still but was not in love with him any more. After a long break up i moved on and met someone else and bam i had a sex drive again! and we didnt work out and now i have found one that i want to every day all day and we have been together for a year november first! So the best advice i could ever give you is to leave. if you take a break then you might be able to work things out and be ok, but you might not be trully happy.

That is not good at all. Just try to leave. you will never forget him forcing himself on you. He obviously doen't care about your feelings.

Time to find a new model.

What should you tell him? Tell him you want a divorce.

u have answered ur own question - "u hate living vit him" - so quit ur marriage!

Lol - good for him.

If you have a problem with him, divorce him. Quit complaining, and get rid of him.

Leave hun.

Divorce him if you are unhappy.