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Help!? Is this girl playing me?

I'll try to make it short. Met a girl on facebook. Started messaging eachother she said I was funny and liked talking to me. She spam liked all my pictures and shared a music vid upload saying i was really good <3 We started texting and now it's kind of boring. She texts with like 1-4 words most of the time. I told her im not here to play games and if she likes me. She said shes not playing games and she does. HHours later I posted a status (on purpose to see if she liked me enough to get jealous) saying someone was my new girlfriend. The facebook girl texted me saying "So now you have a girlfriend? That's cute. Bye. and now either she is mad or shes just pretending to be. I explained to her amanda has a bf and it was a joke and were just friends. Lately facebook girls been replying with one word answers. (shes still mad) So i said, "you're a boring texter" and she goes "K" then another message a few seconds after "cuhz I dont wanna make your girlfriend mad" BUT THEN. I go on her facebook and see she has alll these comments from other guys on her pictures saying she cute. She replying to most of them with a thanks<3 or whatever. and TODAY she uploaded a picture some guy said cute and she said "thanks c;". Uhm? What the **** are you doing winking when she knows we kinda have a thing. So either shes playing me or some **** and talking to a million guys the same way or the low chance shes trying to make me jealous or some ****. PLEASE HELP. Im sick of falling for girls who arent worth my time. Its ******* annoying. What do you thinks going on?

Update:

@ the first person well I'm sorry about the whole thing what can i do to fix it?

Update 2:

@donkey you're stupid. She goes to a highschool not far from mine. I'm 17. So is she. or 16. We were suppose to hangout this week on friday but idk now cuhz shes mad or whatevers going on is happening.

Update 3:

I understand what you're all saying. I'll call her in a few days. let this whole thing blow off. Only reason I did the jealousy thing anyways is cuhz this has happened before where a girl led me on and I was DEVASTATED. I was trapped in a emotionally rollercoaster in a void. I just don't want to go back to that depressing place.

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  • 8 years ago
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    She likes you, and she risked a lot to let you know. Girls are rarely as obvious as this one. The fact that she made a point to be this obvious means that she realizes that you're not sure, and she's trying to get through to you. And girls NEVER outright tell guys they like them unless they do.

    By liking all those pictures, the video, and talking to you, she's not only announced to you that she likes you, she's also announced it to all of her friends and family. By acting like you had a gf, you've made it look like she was some psycho crazy girl who was obsessed with her, humiliating her. You said it was a joke, but that just means that you aren't taking her or relationships seriously, and she takes you seriously and wants you to take her seriously.

    I would call her, apologize to her, say you were being really stupid, and that you don't have a lot of experience with this kind of thing. If you're still interested in her, offer to take her out for ice cream, your treat. And do so.

    Last but not least, stop being a coward and start talking to her in person. If it seems like the conversation is lacking, that's because you're not spending time together in person, and she feels like you don't like her and you're just playing with her because you're not even trying.

  • 8 years ago

    Well you played a game and she stopped texting a lot because she thought you had a gf. She wouldn't have mentioned her if she didn't like you. Even though guys were liking her pictures she was clearly into you in the beginning because she was talking to you and flirting with you. She mentioned the gf because she was sad about it. Maybe it would've been better to make up a fake girl profile instead. You can't change anything that happened maybe just be honest with her and give her some flowers or something. Or say that you are single on fb again and then on friday when you hang out with her be friendly and apologize.

  • 5 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You ****** up dude and she thinks you are a douche now if you cant take the risk and want to talk to her and actually believe her you have no respect there is a thing called trust in a relationship and apparently now she believes that you never will she probably believes that you were really nice and wasn't ******* with you and on FACEBOOK. if you posted a pic on FACEBOOK and a girl commented cute and thought she was cute and she said something along these lines cute<3 then hell yeah your going to comment back thanks <3 you could have had her but now you must work back up to gain trust and be able to talk to her.

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  • 8 years ago

    Die Hard selly g fan, is pretty much as close as you can get to pin point accurate. You shouldn't mess with a girl just because she gets boring, make it interesting.

    Also, meeting people on Facebook and saying "you have a thing" is rather ridiculous. I am very shy but I still am manly enough to talk to girls in public, I respect women too much to only think of them as pixels.

    Source(s): Face + palm
  • 8 years ago

    Honestly, y'all are both playing games and you guys just need to be honest with each other. What you did wasn't right but I can understand why you wouldn't like all these guys commenting on her pic. long story short, say your sorry and make up. Try being her friend and if y'all are comfortable with getting together than do it but try not to be pushy.

    Source(s): im a chic
  • 8 years ago

    she probably feels like you were playing games with her. There's a simple way to fix this. Just tell her you like her and only her and you apologize if you offended her or led her on in any way. Then just be yourself and you're all set.

  • 8 years ago

    Seriously? don't fudge with girls, or you will get beyotch slapped, and i would slap you too.

    YOU your self messed up NOT HER

    I think you should apologize and admit your being stupid.

    Take her some were sweet (light show, nice dinner, whatever) and just apologize, she should forgive you.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Homestly You both are playing games with each other tell each other how you feel. And she is probably doing to make you jealous

  • No you were the one playing with games, not her you idiot, she's hurt, same thing happened to me and I got hurt I was extremely hurt, so obvi she's hurt and realizes that you're a douche and wants someone better.

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