Concerns about having a 3 some?

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I have been married for almost 10 years. My wife and I have 2 kids together and considering this is my first marriage as far as I can tell we are happily married. About a year ago my wife started teasing at the idea of bringing in a girl for a 3 some. If we were still dating, or if we have not been married for so long I would jump at the opportunity. I have heard so many horror stories about what happens when you bring in another person into the bedroom. I guess I'm not wanting to sacrifice that. She is very good looking so I never was tempted to cheat, and because she has kept herself together after 10 years of marriage I have done the same to maintain that sex appeal. Am I nuts for having my doubts? Is there something I'm missing that I should be looking at this in a different way?

Alexis · Accepted Answer

Don't. Do. It.
I promise you'll regret it.
It'll only cause problems in your marriage.

kornfan-1 · Answer

You are right to have concerns.  Threesomes can totally destroy your marriage.  A lot of times, someone that was involved in the 3 some seeks out the person that joined the couple in the bedroom. Causing major problems. You sound like you have a beautiful lady and I know you do not want to share that do you?

Anonymous · Answer

Its either a trap or just a fantasy.  Either way stay clear of it. Fun if you are single or she doesn't mean that much to you otherwise its a mistake.

Talyah · Answer

congrats for staying married for so long. i suggest you just stay happy with the lady you have :-)

? · Answer

Don't do it bro...just keep it between you two.

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