Grieving My Mother passed away last November 7, 2012 and i miss my Mother?

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I am trying to hang in there but i must tell you i really miss my Mother. she lived a good life but i feel very empty and alone. I realize time itself is a good healer as my Dad passed away over 9 years ago but i feel so different and i feel like i do not belong to the same family. I just want my Mom to know i really did care about her and i loved her. I do not want to see her suffer anymore with the osteeo peruses and Osteo Arthritis but i will never ever forget my Mom. I hope i can be a Human being again and feel happy.      The  Beatles

Haley · Accepted Answer

Dear The Beatles,
I have lost relatives. It doesnt feel good, does it? It sucks. Alot. We become too attached to things and end up getting somewhat hurt in the end. But your mother wants to see you happy. She is your mother, and you are her son. She knew you loved her and you know she loved you. We all have times where we regret doing things or being mean to someone, but family are supposed to love you unconditionally. Your mother wants to see you happy, not sad. Someday, you WILL meet with her again. And actually, shes always there beside you, even if you cant see her. Just dont forget to talk to her and pray every night. And every morning you wake up, be sure to wish her a bright morning and smile. She is with you every step you take. And dont be sad, be happy that your mom no longer has to suffer with  Osteeo peruses and Arthiritis.

I hope this helped.

οικος · Answer

I miss mine too and she died more than half a century ago. One of my uncles told me something very wise at her funeral. He said that you never forget but the pain gets duller with time. He was right. Hang in there.

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Grieving My Mother passed away last November 7, 2012 and i miss my Mother?

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