Would it help me to do anything about finding Barr bodies in a blood sample of mine?

I'm male, and i definitely am because i have a daughter and a son along with the relevant trouser furniture, so there's no doubt about that, but i've always felt really uncomfortable with being male and consistently found that when i make choices and preferences which feel natural to me, i find that most of the other people who like those things, prefer those choices etc., are women, and it's entirely unconscious and natural to me.

So anyway, yesterday i got curious and took a blood film, and it turned out some of my white cells have Barr bodies. This means some of them are genetically female. Now the thing is, i'm happily married to my wife and have two children, am in my mid-forties and my wife definitely wants me to look male and retain the equipment, and of course i am male. But, i really feel that it's not enough just to put up with continuing to be a masculine-looking sodding bloke, and this has really vindicated so much of my life-long feeling that i would much prefer to have been born female. Any suggestions as to what i should do about it? Having my naughties snipped off is not an option and she doesn't even want me to have breasts, which i find quite upsetting.