Ex wife wanted the divorce, now wants to try again. Why?

Moving On,

You're probably aware that it's a collection of the "little things" that accumulate within a marriage that can cause it to fail. The truth is that if one spouse refuses to properly deal with these issues, then resentment and bitterness can occur towards the other. As a result, the spouse who's bitter and resentful can eventually "fall out of love" with their mate. I'm sure that your marriage with your ex-wife was no exception.

Your ex-wife fell "head over heels", literally with her married moron of a co-worker because he probably represented an escape from her marital issues. Being the predatory opportunist, this low life preyed upon your ex-wife just to get between her legs. Like most females who are led by their "feelings & emotions", your ex-wife believed that this scum bag was her new "soul mate".

Being a married low life, I'm sure that this moron promised your ex-wife that he was going to leave his wife & family just to be with her - AND SHE TOTALLY FELL FOR IT!!! Therefore, she couldn't wait to:

1.) Get rid of you. (You stood in the way of her happiness)

2.) Marry her "soul mate". (In her dreams)

3.) Live happily ever after. (How's that working out for her?)

Now, REALITY has pimp slapped your ex-wife and her fantasy. Your ex-wife realized that she was just a side piece to an immoral low life who totally played her. The grass on the other side was just "astro-turf". She needs you to help her survive (ie..pay the bills) and treat her decently. Then she'll heal from her wounds (from her affair) and seek another guy to exchange bodily fluids - if she hasn't changed! If she's fallen OUT OF LOVE with you before, then she must be willing to do anything reasonable to FALL BACK IN LOVE with you again. Peace!

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Ex wife wanted the divorce, now wants to try again. Why?

My wife ( ex ) had an affair with a married co-worker. She fell head over heals in love with him. Wanted me out so fast, she did not even hire a lawyer. I know that he and his wife are separated but not yet divorced. We divorced over a year and a half ago. So if this d-bag and my ex wife...

When your wife falls in love with another man (who appears to be available on call 24 hours a day), your wife will tend to think that her current marriage is a flop. But usually the fantasy of this perfect affair will fail miserably. And now, ex wife wants to try again, it simply means she wants to go back to her normal life she was during her marriage because this is her comfort zone.

Is it possible for her to find another man while she is back to her comfort zone? maybe

Is it that she is lonely, she just needs the presence of her young kids (if any) around? maybe

Whether or not she is really truthful to come back as your wife and a family together remains a question mark (time will tell).

However, while she is around, she is ensuring that you do not have any girlfriends or potential wife to be. This is for sure.

Well, give some time to yourself while overlooking what she is really up to (in particular if you have young kids (below 15 age) around, preferably the kids are with their dad and mum), do things you enjoy doing, time will tell.

to the wonderful journey ahead of you

It seems like he kicked her to the curb and she realizes that she's made a mistake. She's probably lonely and she misses the life that you all had together.

Whether or not you want to take her back is entirely up to you. If you do take her back, try having some counseling. Make sure you both understand each other before taking that next step... again

Hope this helps.

Have you ever heard the expression the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence?

Your wife might have gotten all wrapped up in the passion and the excitement of a new sexual relationship. She might have also anticipated more from their relationship than that guy was willing to do. As for "did he kick her to the curb?" let me ask you if that really matters one way or the other? She has asked to reconcile so you just need to decide if you want to or not.

I would suggest that instead of a fast reconcile that the two of you "date" and see what happens.

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The consideration is how long has it been since the breakup. If it's been only a few days, you are not on the right path to ever getting your ex to text you back nor getting your ex back as well. In fact, what you're doing is pushing them further away.