Bi polar or ?

I have a friend in her 30's. She is totally a bully when it comes to things being her way. Her friends, and family have no rights. She threw all of her husbands cherished collectibles out, even though he begged her not to. One summer she got it in her head to redo their yard, and so she totally went all out. There was an old garage, that she tore down, and threw almost everything in it away. She planted thousands of dollars worth of plants, rerouted the fence to the very edge of the property lines, it was originally set a lawnmowers width from the neighbors fence to allow maintenence. She put a 10 thousand dollar deck on the back of the house. No matter what her husband said she continued going full force.

They really didn't have the money to afford it all. She is like that for periods of time, then nothing no energy. Her latest thing is religious fanaticsm.

Her sleep is almost non existant. I don't know if she gets depressed. She is forgetful, disorganized. She does have a job hiring, and firing people. From what I know she is relentless. Her husband finally bailed,was it a coincidence that he started slowly becoming diabetic when she was fighting him about the yard ordeal. She never really had a long relationship. She was always fighting with her boyfriends. She got purposely pregnant to a guy with no job after she knew him 4 days