Why are American gays so horrible?

I see what you're saying. I think you're talking about how some gays throw other people under the bus after all what we've done for them. I'm a gay supporter and I see that happening. Anytime there is a minority, they will do anything to gain the high ground. It could be because of how some people treated them from the past. Heck, some black Americans STILL hate white Americans.

Yikes, this is getting annoying.

Of what I know of Davey Wavey, he has a youtube account that is about "gay things". Youtube, as well as Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, etc. is a social media (I've seen people talk about social media being where gays go #bottom or w/e). Social media =/= real life. I assume Davey Wavey does more than just talk about gay stuff in reality. Just because he has a social media dedicated to "gay stuff" doesn't mean that he's making his entire life about it.

You have to understand that gays are a minority and are often misrepresented or sometimes not represented at all. So by making a youtube channel that revolves around his sexuality, he isn't doing much more than providing entertainment to boys like him.

Straight people flaunt their sexuality every other minute of the day. But they're allowed to because that's the norm.

You say you met a "normal" gay. What is normal? I assume you meant that he liked sports and his voice was masculine sounding. Basically what anyone else would call straight-passing. If I'm wrong, feel free to correct me. That is incredibly homophobic. Yes believe it or not, you can be gay and a homophobe at the same time.

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I was in the middle of revising this and I just got extremely lazy because this is a lost cause. You seem pretty comfortable in your homophobic world. When/if you realize that you have a dislike or hatred for gays who are not extremlely masculine and who are comfortable with their sexuality (despite what society tells them again and again) you can get help from a counselor or psychologist. They would be more than capable to help you get over this issue. This doesn't just go for Josh, it goes for the rest of you as well.

If you cannot find gays who talk about more than their sexuality, then it seems you are looking in all the wrong places. And if you actually feel the need to post places about how "annoying" they are, then that really really does suck for you and I wish you the best of luck.

If being "Flamboyant" and talking about issues you and people like you face perpetuates the stereotype that homophobes believe, then that is not necessarily an issue for the gays. The homophobes have always and always will be bigots, so changing what you do isn't going to do jack sh*t. Trying to oppress the oppressed further is going to do damage and it really is disappointing that no one sees this.

odd there many that are not odd Laverne Cox knows trans women that have killed and more she looks like woman the more chance of it. being proud of being should not have to be ashamed of who they are

As an American, I agree. This country tends to have a BIG AND LOUD view of individual expression, and if your voice doesn't deafen everyone for miles, then it isn't heard at all.

I agree with you and ask myself the same thing, I think a lot of people here are just like goats and just copy what the rest do. Their social network just talk about their sexuality and is filled up wit #tags like gayboy gay bottom top etc like theyre life just revolves around that and there's nothing else to their lifes. Is theyre nothing more important than their orientation, like just make it normal. And omg where did you meet him I used to live there

I agree with what your saying, about giving the gay community a bad name. It gives everyone the stereotype of the flamboyant, obnoxious gay guy. But I also believe that everone has their right to behave as they wish, and if you don't like it, it sucks to suck. Also, I guess since the stereotype of flamboyant, obnoxious gay guys is so widespread in America, it has almost become expected for gay guys to behave in this manner. That is most likely why they do.

It's because they are allowed to be incredibly obnoxious. Our government protects everything they do and say and glorifies them to avoid offending them. They think they're special and it's annoying to the rest of America too.