Is wishing your mother dead ever justifiable?

Completly understandable. But utterly useless too as nothing would be gained.

Even if you did, after dancing on her grave you would eventually collapse in tears and feel so empty.

Sadly I am all too familiar with several such women, and the only way to deal with it is to forget them totally but also show them that you do not need them at all, better still if you can do well in life and let them see but be excluded from it.

I see where you are coming from, from personal experience as well as other people's stories, but I really think that with anything, you can't handle it negatively.

I mean, being sour over anyone isn't going to help the situation in fact it will only make it worse. I'm not saying you should smile and you have to be necessarily positive in that your mother wasn't the mother you needed or wanted, but I am saying that hate is a very strong and terrible thing, and I assure you that if you took it out you would be much happier.

" love what loves you

but never hate what

hates you, for hate is the burden to exhaust the stars in you." - RM Drake

I don't think you should ever wish anyone to be dead. Or wish death onto others

Yeah its justifiable, let me know when she dies, I'll provide balloons and entertainment for the celebration

depends on why you feel that way