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Alex Andrews
Alex Andrews asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 5 years ago

How do girls feel about this?

I'm a 19 year old guy in college and a virgin, most I've ever done is kiss a girl and that was only one time. Do girls really care about this? Both from the hook up and relationship perspectives please. It doesn't bother me really, I'm just worried about what girls may think. And I'm not completely clueless about sex, I've read a lot.

Let me explain why I'm inexperienced. Didn't date in high school because the only girls I thought were worth it were already taken. In college, I've had no time to get to know a girl well enough to ask her out or she's already in a relationship. Tinder hasn't done anything for me. I also wasn't truly ready for a relationship until about a year and a half ago, and I wasn't that good looking until about two years ago. I've had multiple girls tell me I'm a great guy with lots of great qualities and a lot going for me and that I was attractive. Bearing that in mind, is this a bad spot to be in?

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  • Kiara
    5 years ago
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    I'm a 19 year old girl in college:)

    Personally, I would much rather date someone like you than someone who has slept with/hooked up with tons of girls. I am not a virgin, but sleeping with a guy who is virgin is not a deal breaker whatsoever. Sleeping with anybody new requires adjustment, virgin or not. So the sex will get better over time regardless of whether you have prior experience.

    I think your reasons for not dating in high school are sweet and would attract any girl who is relationship minded and not just into hookups.

    Unfortunately, I am not really into hook-ups so I can't answer you on that one.

    Just wait for the right girl who cares about you and the worries you have right now will be irrelevant.

    Hope this helps:)

  • Alex Andrews
    5 years ago

    Let me clarify, I'm totally willing to have sex, I don't intend to stay a virgin until marriage

  • Anna
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Don't worry, it's not. Being a virgin isn't bad.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    They will understand that this is your choice and that they cannot make you do anything that you do not want to do.

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