What shall i do?

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I'm almost always lonely...is it ok?

It have been like this since i was young like i have never changed or something. I'm an 18 yr old student now and things have stayed at is since i was 8. Anyways I'm just almost always have been stuck.at home and im unable to make friends cuz I'm not allowed to go out or got enough social skills. I know u would think ur an adult now but it's no difference i still live with my parents and i can't get out of it. I got ADHD and it have been always hard for me to maintain relationships so this also have an effect on my future as i am living this now. Um i kinda had a hard past and stuff so it all joined and results into this. I have never been allowed to even to go to a birthday party lol it's till this much. Anyways i don't know my mom and older sis are traveling on monday so I'll stay here at home with my dad and brother mostly they'd somewhere and I'll be home alone so im thinking of starting to prepare for my midterms which are after spring break but i don't know because I'm not used to study before a week over something. I'm not even close to my relatives or something.

So what do you guys think? Like any advice about what i can do or something?

Idk I'm kind of got used of getting lonely then following it the depression that strikes after it...but i don't like it.

soixante · Accepted Answer

solitude  is different than being lonely...so are u alone or lonely?
u can enjoy ur solitude by activities..there are so many things u cud do
if u are lonely then u can try activities that involve people so u get to meet new ones so  i guess the secret word is activities...u chose which form u want it  with people or with out.
 about going out.. express to ur parents ur need to go out ..sometimes communication is the key

Mars Mission Australia · Answer

Do a hobby group with your own interests and

Straight away you have common topic

Things to mutually discuss, all about the

Group and the sacred cupa break, hey?

Then you won’t feel lonely but connected

And happy, hey?

Very best wishes

Mars

Source:) Study.

Anonymous · Answer

Why have your parents restricted your life so much? Did you leave out anything or are they just crap parents? Research ways to socialise and make friends
Join sporting teams or social groups. You're 18 so your parents can't restrict your life now as much as before.

Kyle · Answer

do you have interests?  it's easier ot make friends whom have similar interests.  sports, video games, movies, politics, music, whatever it may be.  if you go to high school, be brave and join some clubs or groups at school.  join something that has interests you would like to do.  when you do activities with people whom have similar interests, you can be more of your self and just have fun with people.  then you expand on with their other friends, and build your network from there.

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