My aunt doesn't love me. I am very distressed about this. How can I get my dear aunt to love me?

why would you think your aunt doesn't love you? im sure she does

Find out the reason why it is so .It may be she does not like the way how you are doing things or your behavior. Ascertain the reasons and correct yourself.Her attitude should change then.

Reach out to her but at that point know you did all you could and if she still dislikes you then she is the one with the problem. People can change. I had a relative that attacked me in 2012 and now likes me a lot but obviously did not in 2012.

you cant make her love you but maybe you can pray god changes her

It’s difficult to respond correctly on such little background information as to why she threatens you period and doesn’t love you? How old are you? Pray for a calm heart and peace of mind and that things get better between you and your aunt be peaceable and patient. 

If your assumption is correct, then you must also know why she feels this way. If you trynto put this matter right, then its possible that she may change her mind.

If you don't, she wont. Its up to you.

It is a fact of life that not everyone is going to love you. You may try to do everything you can to please her and to be kind, but she may still not warm towards you. There could be different reasons for that. Often nieces and nephews are a lot like their uncles and aunties. It may be looks, personalities, voice or mannerisms that could remind her of the past. Sometimes feelings may be stirred up and she may get uncomfortable . And they are sometimes not even definite memories but only feelings and emotions. The best you can do, is being yourself. Be kind,’keep conversation peaceful and calm. Don’t be to pushy in wanting to be liked but relax. Also think about how you can be the best person, you can be. Don’t overthink it but be honest with yourself. You can’t make people love you. But you can show your best sides . In time she may realise that her feelings were unwarranted and she had a mistaken view about you. So relax and don’t dwell on it. Also try to talk about it with your parent , as your mother or father who is the sibling would probably understand your aunt better and help you to deal with it.