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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 4 months ago

If you knew someone was cheating on a friend should you tell them? Or mine your own business?

I feel guilty for not saying anything but I also would be a snitch. It's not my relationship. But the entire  family knows but her and choose to pretend it's not happening cus they all like to live in denial. What would be the right thing to do? I don't think she would even believe me anyway 

Update:

This guy is mt brother in law by the way and always wants to make small talk cuz he knows I don't like him. So what I go over for Christmas to the family house and he's girlfriends there and I pretend like everyone else?

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  • Anonymous
    4 months ago

    Your obsession with your brother-in-law's sex life is troubling.  Again, if I were your husband I would NOT tell you what anyone shared with me in confidence.

  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    4 months ago

    it might be better to stay out of it

  • 4 months ago

    UNLESS SHE ASKS THEN NO

  • T J
    Lv 7
    4 months ago

    Since the family knows, stay out of it. Let the family tell her.

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  • Helen
    Lv 7
    4 months ago

    That's a really awful position to be in. Either way, you will feel guilty. Personally I would, because my loyalty would lie with my friend and I would hope someone would tell me in that situation. Even then, know that even if she believed you, she wouldn't thank you.

  • Sam
    Lv 7
    4 months ago

    Mind your own business.

    You did the right thing.  

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