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How can one overrule the fight of cognitive dissonance?

I and one of my new friend after having an outing in the evening met with an accident we were in hospital side by side. Both felt alright by morning and were discharged from the hospital. I was very caring about her. My husband came to pick us up. My husband started conversation with her, where he accused her of being around for eight years and not telling him about it. It was emotional. no one said I love you but the conversation and the emotions that were there meant that. I asked my husband to stop the care (without getting angry but felt hurt) at the same time he too asked me if he should stop the car for a moment (we did that simultaneously. He gave me a teary eyed look which meant thanks for understanding. I intended to get out of the car and let them have their conversation. I just stroked his cheek and responded with a teary eye and stepped out of the car and walked away - in the car they both just huddled with their heads together crying. After some period of time (maybe few months) I was travelling around the different places (tourism) with a mindset of not getting together with anyone else.. but at one point I just turn around and just ask one of my friend should we take up security together? (Which could me - I indirectly asked him to marry me) and I walked away. He was surprised and yet just smiled (being happy that I finally wanted to settle with him).

This was a dream - what does it mean?

I know this man for 4 and half years... married for 4 years.

My colleague who is 5 years younger than me does talk to me at times and also messages me after work hours. Talks to me for hours on some days and some times the entire week goes by without communication. We do look at each other but I can't understand if he is interested in me. Plz suggest ways to find out.

I've been harbouring feelings for my colleague at work. Cant stop thinking about him. He is 5 years younger to me. I don't have the guts to express my feelings. What do I do?

Well lot of limitations.. but I just love him too much

As doen in Tarot reading.. If I pose a question and pull out a chit from my answering bowl.. how accurate would the answer be?

Of course it is happening inside your head, Harry, but why on earth should that mean that it is not real?

Does this apply in our real life?

He is my colleague... we are not in a relationship.. we are just casual acquaintances.. but I feel a deep sense of peace when I see Him... is this the beginning of something?

I stopped breastfeeding my child in the month of February.. now it is end of November... I still find some white milky discharge from my nipples... I tasted it.. it is sweet too.. do I still produce milk?

I was at an airport, my crush (who doesn't know about my feelings at all) was also there. Both waiting for the flight. Both of us were sneaking at each other's phone and papers, to find whether the other is interested in them. I was struggling to get my papers in order and somehow was about to miss a flight. He was about to board the same flight. Even though he was all set, he made some health excuse and did not board the flight. I was called to the hospital wing and I saw him there, smiling at me. I felt he missed his flight for me. Both did not worry about missing the flight and were happy. But both knew it would have been even better if we had boarded the flight and left this country. What does this mean?

For the last 7 years I've tried different things to lose weight. .. dieting. .. gym... herbalife. .. honey and lemon etc. But nothing happened. .. Over a year I have dropped from size 36 to 30... (jeans - same brand) but my weight just keeps dropping n rising in a bracket of 3 kgs. I just cannot understand. . N btw my muscle mass has risen only by 2%

What other than muscle mass could be the reason that I cannot reduce the nody weight?

What action should I take?