Emily

I have very irregular periods. Sometimes it goes for months sometimes it doesn’t come for months. But it’s never really heavy. It’s very hard to figure out and my husband and I are trying to have a baby. I am 26. Beginning of this month I started to get very sore breasts which lasted 3 weeks. So tender I couldn’t even lay on my stomach. I was hot constantly. Most recently I have been incredibly emotional. Usually when I’m PMSing I get really irritable. Then 4 days ago we have sex. The next morning I woke up and started gushing blood. I have been soaking through a super plus tampon in 2 hours. It’s been 3 days of this bleeding. And today I’m so tired that I could barely keep my eyes open at work. The doctor can’t get me in until Friday. And I really don’t want to spend the money on going to the ER.

Anyone have a similar experience or advice?

My boyfriend and I have protected intercourse regularly. But there have been a couple questionable times around January 15/16 of how protected it really was. My last regular period was January 4-8th. My period this month (feb 5-9) started a day late. But it was light brown, pink/purple, and extremely light for two days and then bright red for a less than 16 hours. Then back to almost nothing but the pink/purple/brown blood. This is completely unusual for me regularly. Any one else dealt with this before?

Ive been sick to my stomach off and on Since last friday. And for the last 6 hours I've had a weird pinching pain in my lower abdomen but it goes away after a few seconds. I don't have cramps when I'm on my period usually. Before I got my period this time I knew something didn't feel right with my body but I couldn't tell what it was. I plan on taking a pregnancy test tomorrow. Is there anything else that may be causing these symptoms besides a possible pregnancy?

So my guy friend and I have been friends for 3.5 years. We've had our ups and downs but we always to back to being really close. There's chemistry there and it always has been. For the first 1.5 years we would talk and flirt but it would always end with him friend zoning me and after 2 weeks we would be just fine. Right before I moved out of the area where he lives he started to get very clingy and he would always be around me and be extremely caring. At which point I friendzoned him and moved and we stopped talking for a little while. I recently moved back and he has done a lot of the same things as before but more intensely trying. We hung out this weekend and he was seriously putting on the moves (grabbing my waist, flirting, couldn't stop touching me, whole shebang) but because I've been turned down by him so many times I always push him off and he thinks I'm friendzoninf him. How do I let him know I don't want him in the friendzoned anymore and I would be happy to move on with a relationship?

Recently I can't keep any food down or anything besides water. When I do get something that will stay it's small (crackers, a noodle soup, something dry) and my throat feels like it's closing up for hours afterwards. I have the same closing of the throat feeling when I come in contact with latex (I have a latex allergy). I can't figure out what's going on. I plan on going to the doctor but I wanted to see if anyone else had a similar experience or knows what it is.

I have four cats. A female whose 8yrs old who is spayed and a male cat whose almost 8yrs old who is not fixed. Andtwo male cats that are 8 months old almost 9 months who are not fixed. Ive had those kittens since they were 6 weeks and they are siblings. They have never fought even with the older male cat or each other and neither the older or the younger have sprayed and the older male is the only one who goes outside but doesnt stay out. My sister is moving in and she has a male cat about 6-7 months old and a female about 1.5-2 yrs old both not fixed. And the female just had five kittens last tuesday and once the kittens are old enough the mom and kittens are going. My cats and her cats wont see each other except for the male and my older male that both go outside. My question is will any of my male cats start spraying because of her male cat or because of her female cat that they will never see?

I have a friend whose been with me through a lot. The past two weeks ive noticed a change in our friendship. It went from just friends to when were with each other its a flirt fest and he looks at me very longingly and he hasnt had that strong of that look until recently. He also has been blushing a lot recently. And apparently smiling and getting all excited when he sees me. On sunday I waved to him and he waved back then awkwardly excited waved a second time and almost fell out of his chair. Lol. And he said that he was going to try to be better for me. And that he is going to work on spoiling me with everything I could ever want. He hasnt really ever said those kinds of things to me before. But weve always been open and close to each other and have a very strong connection. He will walk very very close to me. So close that we are touching sometimes. And he will randomly come touch my hands and just find a reason for touching my hands. I always have stupid jokes and he always laughs at them and he will always look at me after he makes a joke. I apparently have never noticed when someone had a crush on me and I havent actually had a crush on anyone either. Is that what happens when someone has a crush on you?

I have a guy friend who has stuck with me through my personal hard times and has seen me at my very worst and best and for a very long time we hated each other and couldn't be in the same area without arguing with each other but after all of that he is still there for me and treats me differently than everyone else. There's a connection between us and we are very comfortable with each other. But recently every time we see each other he will come up and fist bump me or high five or just do something stupid for our hands to touch and sometimes they just stay together for a few seconds longer than normal and its comfortable, like neither of us want to take our hands away. And when were talking he will look at me with this horrible longing in his eyes and he will always look me right in the eyes and I am the one that ends up looking away but its not uncomfortable. It's not awkward. It's like an intense connecting gaze. But even though that's been happening sometimes he seems really distant. Almost like he doesn't understand and he doesn't want to make it worse for himself. Pretty much all our friends and our parents are sure we will end up together. And we both know there's a connection between us and we've talked about it at great length. I've never dealt with anyone as difficult as him.

Question: does this mean anything? Or has anything like this happened to anyone and what did you do? Sorry this is a strange question and I don't really know what to categorize it as either. Lol

I'm getting a kitten this afternoon from a friend. The kitten was part of a litter of seven and they were all healthy and all lived and it was the moms first litter! Anyhow, my kitten isn't completely litter trained. I have two other cats but I've never had to litter train them because they came that way at six weeks. I heard that if there is another cat that uses a litter box that the kitten will learn faster and be easier to train. Ive never had to train any animal to go in a litter box if you have any tips that would be awesome. And how do you do it?

I've always wondered how you can tell if someone likes you not by anything they say or do buy by their body language. My best friend is a guy and he said that for girls liking guys you can tell in the way they smile at them and you can see it in their smile. For boys liking girls you can see it in their eyes. Is this true and what does it look like? What does a girls smile look like when they like someone? And what kind of eyes do guys have when they like someone?

Apparently I've never noticed it before.

Ive been using burts bees for a while and I love it. How bout you? I just got a new stick last two weeks ago and its the +soothing with eucalyptus and menthol and my real question is: have any of you used it? And does it smell and kind of taste like honey lemon halls cough drops? Lol. I swear to does. Lol

Night yall :) lol

So my bestie is a guy and I've asked questions about him a lot. But people have been thinking that we are dating and were not. We don't like each other like that. He gets paranoid all the time too. So last week he said "if anyone read our messages they would think we were dating. So let's take a break because I don't want people to think that but I'm not tired of you." He always says were "quite close" and he doesn't normally let people get real close to him like that. So we didn't talk or see each other for four days. Then when we start talking again he was really happy. Well yesterday I told him that I was an awesome mood and he said "me too but its even better because of you." Then we saw each other last night at the meeting (what we call church) and he did a sly "text me" gesture as I was walking out so I did when I got home and he told me that he enjoys talking to me which in almost a year of being friends he's never said. And they seem like normal things to most people but he doesn't do that normally. So today i asked why we have to keep distancing ourselves from each other and he said "I just don't want things to develop." And Idk why he would say that because he knows where I stand and I know where he stands. Or I thought so and the next message he completely ignored the whole "were open with each other" part and changed the subject.

Normal besties don't talk like that do they? And does it sound weird to you? What would you think if your bestie of a different gender said that to you?

BQ. What is one thing you learned about yourself since last Friday?

BQ. What kind of weather do you prefer?

BQ. What kind of pillow cases are on your pillows? (Hehe..mine are pokemon lol)

BQ. Does anyone remember the Backstreet Boys? I went to their concert when I was 8 and I can still sing like every song from memory. Lol

BQ. Do you ever have the problem of wanting something to eat but everything you try just isn't right and you end up eating nothing?

Thanks! Good day!

I know what it means and I know that a lot of people are confused or completely wrong when it comes to what it means. So what do you think it means?

Yesterday I answered a question which apparently my answer offended someone and so since I'm not a contact of theirs I couldn't send them a message so I posted a question to say I'm sorry and I didn't mean to offend said person. I really didn't mean it like that in any way. I was simply stating my opinion and they were a little rude in their response. I don't normally get worked up about things like this especially since its over internet people but someone reported my question that was apologizing to this person. Which I thought was even more rude. Especially since I was doing the right thing by trying to fix the problem. So I would like to dispute the report but every time I click on the link in my email it says that Y!A has a problem. I'm rather flustered over the whole thing. I really didn't mean to upset or offend the user in anyway. And I'm still rather sorry about it. I just think its quite hilarious how people can totally bash someone and trash talk them and their questions not get reported and mine that I was trying to apologize in was. People are douches.

Question is...how do I get the link to work or how to I dispute the report?

This might be long. My bestie is a guy and he's super sweet to me. He never used to be and he would always make me feel horrible but I stuck it out and now he has claimed me as his bestie (he said it first) and says that were "quite close". I posted a question a couple days ago about something with us but I don't remember what it was lol. Every one tells me he likes me but I don't see it because I know he doesn't like me and I don't think I like him like that. But today I told him I was sad and he asked why and I explained that I just feel lonely and sad because I have depression and I always feel that way and that I felt unworthy of being happy. And we got into this huge convo about what I want and what will make me happy with myself and I said I wanted to be "happy, friendly, and lovable. But I don't think that will happen unless I have someone show me those things." And he said "you want a boyfriend." And I said "yes and no. I do but I don't want to add another person to worry about because I have a lot going on." And he said "I have a fix all...figure out what you want and take it." But it was weird because he was all excited about it. He's been Doing and saying weird things like that all the time and mostly about him wanting a girlfriend. So I said that Im not in a position to find someone right now and he said "what's holding you back?" I said that I was too unsure of myself and he said "you're stressing me out!!" So here's my question.

Why would he be stressed out about that? And excited that I want a boyfriend?

I also have some BQs cuz I like answering them.

BQ. What do you feel when you love something or someone?

BQ. Is it true that guys usually only become bestows with girls because they like them? (I asked that on my one question, I only got two answers so if you already answered it you don't have to!)

BQ. If you could choose one person to spend eternity with who would it be?

BQ. What's your favorite fruit? Lol kinda random.

I was talking to my best friend whose a guy about his sister and brother in law that I haven't met yet and we've been friends for almost a year. And he said "you won't now because theyre moving to new York for a year." And I said "well yeah but maybe I could in a year if you can stand to be friends with me for that long. Lol jk" and he said "maybe...man I need a girlfriend." Why did what I said make him think "oh I need a girlfriend." Lol. That doesn't make sense.

My sister and mom said that guys don't just decide that you and him are quite close friends and claims you as his bestie unless he has feelings of something. Which I don't believe.

Two questions: is it just a coincidence that he thought of that after I said I wanted to meet his sister and brother in law? And is that true about guys claiming girls as besties?

So I was cleaning my room and I found a half glass of strawberry kiwi V8 juice. And I know that it is rather disgusting. But I haven't had that juice for at least two months. I thought that I smelled something like fermenting fruit almost like its turning into alcohol. Do you think that the V8 juice could be making that smell?

I tried to ask this yesterday but it never appeared. :/

My parents were going to name me Hannah but since my sister was dyslexic they were afraid that I would be too and they wouldn't know because my name would be the same front and backwards. So I got named a family name, Emily :)

What were you going to be named?

My parents wanted to name me Hannah but my older sister was dyslexic and they were afraid that if I turned out to be dyslexic they wouldn't be able to tell. So they named me a family name Emily instead. :)

What was you're name going to be?

I dream a lot. But last night I had this dream that was so weird. I was worrying about money last night and I had a horrible night to begin with. And when I was younger I would find money on the ground that was heads up and I would put it in my right shoe for extra good luck. Lol. Well in my dream I was looking through my pairs of shoes because I was cleaning them and I shook my shoe and change started rattling so I shook it upside down and a whole bunch of dimes fell out and they were all heads up. So I picked up another right shoe and did the same thing and more dimes fell out all heads up and in my dream I remember saying "I'm going to have a lot of good luck now!" Lol Idk what even sparked that.

What was yours?

My bff is a guy and we talk pretty much constantly. We don't like each other besides as friends. But we most the time don't act like friends and act closer than friends. Like people that don't know us think were dating but we honestly aren't into each other like that. Well I talk to him and a bunch of girls who are old enough to be my mom, grandma, and a few more around my age. and I always tell my girl friends "Xoxoxo" when we say goodbye. And last night my bff kept texting me after I told him I was sleeping. I was really tired so I wasn't really with it so I said "I had the strangest urge to say 'xoxoxo' but you don't do that like everyone else I talk to. Lol" and he didn't say anything back to that but kept talking about everything else. And hes done that a few other times but not with anything like that. We find it very awkward to talk about things like that. I even decided if we were the last two people on earth I would "accidentally" kill him so we wouldn't have to reproduce. But he didn't say "yeah I would do the same." His reply to that was "jerk. Why?" I do the same ignoring thing with him too because I don't like it when I get complemented and he's done it a lot recently. And so has his other best friend who I'm not friends with.

Do you think he ignores certain things like that because he finds its awkward like I do?