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People keep saying that me and my family shouldn't be paying doctor's fees for my Mum's funeral. She was diagnosed with cancer just over a year ago, and died last week. She didn't have a private doctor or anything, she was on the NHS. Should we pay doctor's fees? I've never had to sort anything like this out before.

She had cancer, and I only live 3 minutes away but I barely went to see her. The rest of the family went, and they kept telling me to go but I didn't. I think I was scared and didn't know how to deal with it. I went the week before last, but I didn't realy talk to her, I just stayed in the kitchen (she was in bed and wasn't mobile, although a couple of weeks before she could walk about). She said 'Do you know I can't move about and I've not been eating?' and all I said was 'I bet you've lost loads of weight', not that she needed to. Then my sister had a chat with her Thursday, and on Friday I was told she'd had a stroke. It was sometime from when my sister left her at 9:30PM to when my friend phoned an ambulance at about 1PM the next day. I went down and she looked awful, she couldn't even talk. All the family came round. My brother and sister stayed the night with her, but she died Saturday morning. I got the phone call and went down straight away. It was horrible. We're a very...

Is there anywhere on the internet that has Lost Season 4 to watch? Obviously just the ones that have been on TV so far? What about iTunes?

Someone said about OOBE in one of my other questions. When my Mum used to live a few miles away I'd go over and stay. We both thought the house was haunted or something as things got moved around sometimes. My sister stopped one night and she was watching TV in the living room. I was tired so lay on the sofa to go to sleep. I remember waking up (or was I dreaming?!) and trying to call for my sister to turn the TV down or something but nothing came out my mouth. Next thing I knew I was levitating above the sofa! I could feel it, and I've always thought I really was levitating or something, like had an OOBE, then I 'floated' back down. It seemed so real, and I was scared. But I can't remember anything else other than waking up the next day, and remembering it a couple of days later!!

Most of my dreams are incredibly detailed, in fact I could make a movie of my dreams, I've said that before!! But there's this one dream where I'm in this huge mansion with my friends, and I own it! When I woke up I drew the entire mansion's layout, it was huge! The halls were all marble and there were these gorgeous glass doors. Does this mean I'm gonna win the lottery by any chance??????

OK, have you ever had a dream that seemed so real, but you knew you were dreaming? I've had quite a few recently. My friends think I'm weird!! I can be dreaming and realise I'm dreaming and about to wake up (I can actually sense my body in bed), and I don't want to wake up so I click my fingers (in the dream of course) and magically make things happen! It's so cool. Trouble is, when I click my fingers to make someone I really fancy appear it never works!! Then I feel myself waking up. Sometimes I wake up and can't move my body for a bit. My eyes are open but it takes a short while for my body to wake up. Does this make sense to anyone?? Just thought I'd share it cos I think it's fantastic! Lol!

My gay friend is the gayest person I've ever met! He's ALWAYS on about his gayness, usually to people who don't want to hear about it. He gets on at me for not being proud of who I am, but I am! He thinks I should be more like him and tell the world I'm gay. But I just say it's MY business what I am, no one else's. Everyone knows I'm gay anyway, but I don't see the point in shouting about it. I'm gay and that's it. Why do some people feel the need to tell everyone about everything they do? I'm very comfortable with my sexuality but I don't believe anyone should be shouting about it, whether they're gay, straight or bi.

My friend never ever believed in stuff like that, so she thought it'd be a laugh when a mate asked her to do a seonce. Ever since that night she's had nothing but bad luck. Also, her boyfriend used to do them and he's had a lot of bad luck too. Apparently he can commune with the dead! I dunno though. I reckon I wanna do one with a couple of mate, one of which has done them before. What are your views?

And that dinosaurs were on Noah's Ark?? Pathetic!! Is that the excuse these bible bashers are coming up with????!! The Universe is 14billion years old, not 6000 like some like to think!!!

I've seen clips of people throwing a baseball and it comes up on screen a couple of seconds later... Just wondering if it affects the gameplay, cos if you swing the bat when the ball's coming wouldn't it show up too late and you'd end up missing it??

Any info on the performance aspect would be greatly received. Thanks.

If not, which networks do?

Is it really that slow??? Saw it on wiichat.com and it must have taken at least 2 minutes to copy 19 blocks!!! How many KB or MB is a block?

How does the Wii Remote handle? Is it just like the videos you've seen of it? Any delay in relaying your movements on screen?

I'm in the UK and can't afford to pre-order a Wii at the moment but would like to buy one on 15th Dec using my Christmas bonus from work! Does anyone know how many Wii's are coming to the UK? I know they are shipping 4 million worldwide by end of 2006, but most of those are going to USA.

I know you can use an on-screen keyboard or a nine key feature just like on mobile phones but I think it'd be easier with a keyboard which could plug into one of the Wii's USB port. Also, can you download stuff like MP3s or videos from the internet onto an SD card?

It goes; b b b baby, I think I'm going crazy. Or something like that! It's very recent. Probably English too, I'm in the UK. Ten points if ya know it.

It's doing my head in. My ex bf has swapped numbers with I guy I'm after. This guy is bi, and I've already given him oral 4 weeks ago when he said he wasn't sure whether he was gay or bi... I told him that I used to date another guy in town, and now they've gone off together tonight. I'm not vain or anything but everyone tells me I'm better looking than my ex, and this guy said he wanted to go with me again but I said 'in time' cos I didn't want anyone to find out about him, cos no one knows. Thing is, I fancy him like crazy! When I saw them tonight I got really jealous cos I want this guy! If I went in there I could easily make him go with me and not my ex as I'm more experienced, but I might fall out with my ex, which I don't want to do as he's the only ex of mine who I still talk to! HELP!!

The controller is awesome, I can't wait til December! £179 sounds very reasonable too, not like the PS3's high price of about £499! I'm sure I read somewhere that it plays Gamecube games as well as DVDs, do you know if that's true?

I was watching a film, Stand By Me, and half way through my jaw dropped! I fancied one of the male characters! I must have been about 11 or 12, but before that point in the film I had been interested in girls, not boys. I loved the girls at school, and never thought of a boy in that way until half way through the film, it's like it triggered something inside me. I was just sat there, and couldn't believe what was happening. Quite scary actually.

Anyway, I'm 21 now and proud to be gay/bi whatever I am (still not figured that out!) but I finally accepted I liked lads when I was 17, about 6 years in denial, probably because I have homophobic parents.