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A girl I've known for a long time rejected to meet me when I went to her city. I asked her twice beforehand, but twice it was a no.

We are on good terms for the rest and chat regularly online. Smalltalk, sending photos and keeping in touch basically.

Should I give up hope on this girl I really like, or handle things differently?

a girl and I have known each other on facebook since 2010.

since around december last year, we have really started chatting much more and she helps me with learning a language. Furthermore, she often sends pictures of herself (which I like) and we talk about various things (small talk really). I think it's fair to say a friendhsip blossomed there.

In May I had to visit her city, but she didn't want to meet (for reasons I don't know). I was devastated but decided not to give up on her.

Now we are still chatting on facebook regularly and I would say all is well. But nothing much happens and I really want to change that... Start talking on a deeper level. How can I make it more exciting, and how do I suggest maybe chatting to her on Skype?

Call me crazy, but the girl means a lot to me, and she knows that (for example, she likes me to compliment her on her latest photos and sometimes there are messages which show she thinks about me).

I really want her, but the signals are so mixed. I can't see anyone else in my life but her. Don't want to lose her.

I enjoyed reading Yes Man!

I'm looking for something light, something that will absorb me and something that will at least bring a smile to my face every so often.

Holiday reading ;)

a girl I've known online for a few years refused to meet with me earlier this month, even though I visited her town and we chatted a lot beforehand.

After that disappointment, she is still in contact with me and sends photos of herself.

I like her a whole lot and would do everything to meet her, but is there any realistic chance that my persistence will pay off?

I will purchase a new i-phone, which will include a new phone number.

Will I be able to use VKontakte on this new i-phone? I ask because the account may be linked to my current mobile phone number. Wouldn't want to create a second profile.

Thank you!

I have a date tomorrow evening with a girl I haven't spoken to in years. Really looking forward to that but... I feel a cold is coming. It's horrible! I want to look my best and feel great.

Any way to stop the cold or to largely ignore it and have a great meet up?

A friend I had intended to visit abroad rejected to meet me (twice). No reason.

I had booked the trip with the intention of meeting her (6 days).

How can I enjoy it, but don't think of her all the time?

my online friend whom I've known for 4 years now and whom I've chatted to much in the last few months has rejected to meet me in person, when I travel to her city next week.

I asked twice: once a few weeks back, and today I asked again if she would like to see me (maybe she reconsidered). Answer was a definite no.

Now I wonder how I should continue? On the one hand I cherish her for the help she has given me in studying her language. On the other hand, I'm mad because this doesn't make sense (1. She sends photos of herself to me often, 2. I asked to meet as friends, not necessarily lovers, 3. Why wouldn't she want to meet me when so many others have and with whom I had so little contact).

I feel very sad and don't know what I should do with this "friend" now. I'd like to make her feel sorry for this, but then again, I wish her the best.

And what's more, now I need to find a way to enjoy my holiday and stop thinking of her.

Long live those who believe and chase friendship/love.

to make a long story short: I've known a girl over the net for 4 years now. In the last few months, we really chatted a lot and she helped me with learning her language.

Next week I'm heading to her city and it would be my dream come true to meet her.

I asked her two weeks ago but she said "I don't think so". I said, think about it, you're always welcome, no need to decide now.

But as the trip comes closer, I wonder if it would be right for me to ask once again?

We are really good friends on the net, but I can't seem to convince her to meet me in real life... a unique opportunity that I don't want to see wasted.

Today in my chat with a girl who lives in the city I go to on vacation asked me in which hotel I will stay.

It is one of the best in fact, but I felt so bad saying it. I thought it would be better to be honest about it, but as she said, I used to stay in much more modest places.

I'm no worrying she will see me as a rich-loser-brat, while I am not.

In fact, I have saved a lot for this trip, and it will be my first in over a year.

Should I worry about it?

A friend of mine lives abroad. I'm heading to her city in 2 weeks time.

We are, I like to believe, on good terms and chat very regularly (help with language, sending photos, chat on random subjects,...).

I suggested on meeting 2 weeks ago, but the answer was "thanks, I don't think so".

Then I said, "well, I thought it would be nice. Anyway, no need to answer right now".

So the question is, would it be opportune for me to pop the question again (in two weeks from now I will be in the city)?

Or is the ball in her camp now so to speak?

As it is very rare for me to visit the city she lives in (as mentioned, abroad), maybe I could go the extra mile so to speak? There would not be too much to loose, although I appreciate her friendship greatly and wouldn't like to loose that.

I hate when people ask me if I'm still studying or, god help, still go to school.

I'm 26 years old and have graduated nearly 3 years ago, but I look very young.

I fear this plays against me as I'm not taken seriously and I feel it can hurt the chances of me getting a new girlfriend.

I booked a holiday to meet up with a girl I've known for a long time.

Turns out it won't work out, she won't meet me.

Given that all arrangements have been made, how can I go and

1) enjoy myself

2) not think about her all the time while I'm there

thank you! :)

I have known a girl from abroad on the net for nearly 4 years now.

Our contacts have been limited, but since I started learning her language, we have been in touch much more. Really a lot of fun as she assists me in learning. We also touch on much more subjects than just the language and I really feel good about her.

Now, in 2 weeks time, I'll be visiting her city. I suggested meeting up, but she said "she thinks not". There is no clear reason and I admit I am disappointed and lost with this answer;

What is my best chance to make her change her mind? (I told her she didn't have to decide 'now', and that it would be good to meet up).

to make a long story short:

i've known a girl online for 4 years now. Over winter we started chatting much more, and now on a daily basis basically. She helps me in studying the language.

In May I'm heading to her city and today I said it would be nice to finally meet if she wanted to.

She said: "thank you, I don't think so".

I then said: "I thought it would be fun. It's not necessary to make a decision right now, think about it", to which she said "ok".

I agree, I have a crush on her, but I think the fact that we are (even if it's online) friends makes this extra painful for me, because there is no reason for friends not to meet up.

Can I convince her to change her mind?

in early May I'm heading to the city where a good online (female) friend of mine lives.

Lately we have been in contact much, and it would be a pleasure to meet her.

How should I ask her to meet me without having to fear for our friendship or rejection?

I've known a girl abroad for a few years now, through social media and chats.

recently we've been chatting more and became closer. In May I'm heading to the city where she lives.

i've already told her I'll be there in that period, but haven't exactly asked her to meet me.

how can I subtly do this? it would be wonderful to meet her.

I am going to Belarus in early May and would love to meet a friend there who has helped me with learning the language over the net. We've known of each other since 4 years, but got more close over the winter.

However, I wouldn't say there is love from her side - although my feelings are strong. And when I mention I will be in the city she lives, she doesn't seem to be too enthousiastic (which I find a bit disappointing, to the extent I'm even considering cancelling altogether).

I would love our friendship to go on, and maybe meeting face-to-face is wrong for that?

How can I warm her up and make her enthusiastic so as to actually WANT to meet me?

(we're in our twenties)