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  • How can I convince my wife to talk to me and to come home?

    My wife and I have been together for almost 10 years or so and we have never had a fight bad enough that we ever broke up; until last week! We dont have a physically abusive relationship, HOWEVER, i KNOW that verbal abuse is JUST AS BAD! We are both so angry with one another because of stress and because of bills and just LIFE! She left and moved out with ALL of her belongings to her parents house. They then took both of our cars and are in full support of her leaving me....I AM HAPPY THAT SHE HAS THE SUPPORT OF HER FAMILY. I just dont get it because she HATES them! For being so PHYSICALLY abusive to her and her brother. I would die for her and I am just so torn as to how to get her to talk with me.

    She says that she will speak to me when SHE is ready and REFUSES to give me a time line in regards to even speaking. I LOVE HER SO MUCH, but I am so disappointed. She said she left because I told her to do so and that I didnt fight for her when she was leaving because she wanted her space. and now that I have given her some time to sit on it and think...NOTHING! Everyone says tell her goodbye and move on, BUT I LOVE HER!

    I want her to talk with me, that has been the NUMBER 1 problem that she doesnt communicate and I am a LOUD and deal with it now type of guy. SHE IS THE YING TO MY YANG! I am so torn i want to die, my best friend, soul mate, MY HEART left me! HELP! We married to be TOGETHER.....FOREVER!?

    5 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • how long am i supposed to wait before I move on with my life?

    My wife left me on Friday, moving back home with her folks. (The same people who she claimed beat her and made her life a living hell!) However, when i asked her in front of her mother she denied it! WTF!?!?!?!? Was she lying? I really dont think so but, I just dont know why she would leave to go to THEM! Her father hates me anyways! She has said that he resents me for having the things that him and his wife didn't have when they were Jenn's and my age(26/28) I never felt like I was a member of her family in all of the 8.5 years that we were together and NOW I feel like SHE has sabotaged all of that! Her father is def. loving the fact that she left AND that she/he took both of OUR cars! I legally have rights to one of them but I am not going to shitty like them. It just goes to show how LOW/NO CLASS they are! I always knew that though! I am just so blown! I guess what I am asking for advice on is how long should I wait to go out and start having fun as far as hooking up with the ladies again? It has been almost 7 months since I have had sex(if you were interested) and I was stupidly faithful. I am in THE BEST shape of my life and I am only 28. Green eyes, brown hair, olive complex, 6'1, 180 Italian/Peruvian I think that I am a catch for any honey. They only problem is that I am married! I am catholic and it DOES mean something to me.

    She left me after counseling didn't work! The therapist dumped us because she wouldn't get her own therapy; i have been seeking my own! (her excuse, she didn't have $13 per visit to save our marriage) it wasn't/I am not important enough(my words,not hers) so after that i said there is no point in sharing a bed. she moved to the spare room and then moved out because she claims I told her to. That is her rational behind leaving and taking both cars. She thinks that we are just separated and that we are going to "work" things out! Well its been 5 days and she has made NO attempt to contact me in regards to counseling, talking, anything other than ebay took fees out of her bank account and that I intentionally STOLE the money! Not the case! I am so lonely and she knows how bad its been for me. Were I was emotionally I am not going to kill myself BUT i WAS in DARK DARK place and SHE DI DNT CARE!

    that just tells me she never loved me at all! marriage is about honor and commitment and unity!

    I want to be happy and I dont want to be alone! I am SO ALONE! I JUST WANT TO BE HELD! i know that it sounds gay(im not) but I havent had any affection for months! my favorite thing before sex use to be kissing and the last kiss that I got other than a dead fish grandma kiss was i would say at least before new years. I know that I did kiss her maybe a month or so ago in the car or somewhere but she didnt like it and she didnt respond well. we were arguing and i figured that we had to connect SOMEWAY! I am not going to pay for sex but I AM TIRED OF J@$#ing off . There is NO REASON( I feel that either she is lesbian now or she HAS to be cheating) i dont know its too late now i guess....

    How long should I wait! I want love or atleast a warm touch of a woman's hand. I miss the scent of her hair, the touch of her skin. I just miss WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    WTF??????

    HOW LONG? I am serious!!!! I am not going to base my life decision on strangers advice, I am just looking for feedback. To base my decision off of. THANKS

    11 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Should I leave my wife? WE have been together for almost 9 years and married for the last 3.5 yrs.?

    We have been having problems for almost a year now and I feel and KNOW that it is due to our financial troubles. We had a business that we closed almost 2 years ago and ever since we have been having problems. I have been in and out of work and she has been SO jaded and hateful towards me. We BOTH have been nasty towards one another. I have begged her to go to counseling and after a year of trying to convince her the therapist says after 6 sessions that we should not continue to see her until we both seek individual counseling. I have been seeing someone for the past 3 months and I thought we were making progress until we had an argument over poinsettas(how she hated them, I wanted to keep them from Christmas) and since then we stopped the counseling and have been living MISERABLY for the past couple of weeks.

    I have begged her to talk and to come to some finality in terms of our relationship, she refuses and saiys that she doesnt want to talk about it at work and then not at home....so NOTHING gets resolved. She harbours all of these negative feelings towards me and I know that deep deep very deep down she does love me, however, she also doesnt want to do ANYTHING to fix our problems. I want to be with her and live together until we are old and raising our grandbabies....Her not so much.

    I dont want to live in limbo anymore. We have not been intimate for over 4 months and I am going CRAZY! I have told her that I need to be loved and I cant(WONT) cheat on her. But, I dont want to feel so ALONE either! What the hell?

    I just need some advice as to waht I should do. I am Catholic and I dont want to get divorce but I am 28 and i have a half million dollar home that I have busted my butt to keep and I feel that I am JUST ALONE. I didnt get married to put my life on hold and feel miserable EVERY DAY all the time. HELP!!!!

    17 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • I want to start a business selling pies. What is the best way to go about starting up?

    I have a recipe for these pies that I make for gatherings and EVERYONE goes crazy for them! I have been making these pies since I was 16 and I am almost 29! I KNOW that I can make a decent living off of this idea and effort.

    I just dont know how to go about marketing this pie to stores or getting the name out to the public. It is a frozen pie or at least a cold treat, not ice cream. I have NEVER had anyone tell me that they did not like any of these pies. Even when I have taken to places and nobody knew that I made them(so, there was no obligatory and/or fake compliments)

    I AM JUST AN AVERAGE 29 YR OLD. JOE(OR JAMES..that's my name) TRYING TO MAKE A DECENT LIVING TO KEEP UP WITH AN INSANE MORTGAGE IN THE METRO AREA FOR MY BEAUTIFUL BRIDE!

    ANY AND ALL FEEDBACK WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED! THANKS SO MUCH!

    2 AnswersSmall Business1 decade ago
  • is there any way to fix/repair my night guard that my dog broke?

    i have a night guard that was custom made from the dentist($500) and the dog broke it into three separate pieces. I cant just glue them back together because I am missing a tooth(in place of the guard, NOT my mouth) SO, my real question would be HOW DO I REPAIR the missing piece?

    I have tried to buy the $25 Colgate or Crest Night Guard custom kit, however, I kept pulling it out of my mouth during the night. I need to have this in order to STOP grinding my teeth. WHAT CAN I DO???????????????

    2 AnswersDental1 decade ago
  • is there any way to fix/repair my night guard that my dog broke?

    i have a night guard that was custom made from the dentist($500) and the dog broke it into three separate pieces. I cant just glue them back together because I am missing a tooth(in place of the guard, NOT my mouth) SO, my real question would be HOW DO I REPAIR the missing piece?

    I have tried to buy the $25 Colgate or Crest Night Guard custom kit, however, I kept pulling it out of my mouth during the night. I need to have this in order to STOP grinding my teeth. WHAT CAN I DO???????????????

    1 AnswerDental1 decade ago
  • How can I make my wifes birthday more special?

    what can i do for my wife for her birthday? Every year she only asks that her family and I get together for her birthday and I ahve no prblem with that however, her family ALWAYS makes it impossible to have a nice time and even be civil to one another. It ends up being a fight and she is left with a dissapointing birthday. We have been together for almost 10 years and I ahve tried everything...they always ruin it. She wants to include them in her birthday however, she is ultimately dissapointed. I am asking what can i do to make her birthdya GREAT!

    4 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships1 decade ago
  • are there any products available in the stores to test men's sperm for fertility?

    I know that they have ovulation tests so do they have the same for men? Please let me know I am looking to be able to go to the store and not buy something online.

    2 AnswersTrying to Conceive1 decade ago
  • how can i spice up my sex life with my wife... i am not looking for threesomes or anything kinky like that?

    i just feel like my wife and i are stuck in a sex rut. we have been together for almost 9 years now and married for the last 3 i am looking ofr some ideas.

    13 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • how do you get a close shave with a razor.?

    I get razor burn very easily, I also get ALOT of knicks. let me know how to get a close shave without knicks and bumps.

    2 AnswersOther - Skin & Body1 decade ago
  • rogaine anyone?

    has anyone tried the rogaine foam, if so what is the advantage to using this in place or with rogaine shampoo and cond

    1 AnswerMen's Health1 decade ago
  • how long does sex take?

    i ahve had gf that can go all night with breaks in between however my wife is good for 2 romps and that is about 20 -30 min. is that a common thing or do you have sex for a longer time

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • is there a way to groom yourself down under whithout it itching?

    anytime that I shave my sack and the joystick it itches so bad when i sleep. i almost want to never shave again. is it really a turn off to women when men dont groom?

    5 AnswersMen's Health1 decade ago
  • how to fix my computer?

    whenever windows opens on my computer a box with a clock pops up and says that I have 60 seconds to shut down. then is turns off ...help i dont have the money to take it to get fixed

    8 AnswersDesktops1 decade ago