Mummyme

I am moving house soon, to a new area 150 mile north of where we are now. My family is moving from a flat to a house. But the family that are coming here are downsizing and have asked us to take on their female cat as they don't think she will do well with moving to a flat and in a new area.

I have my own kitten, also female, and although I love her and she is definately part of the family I'm not sure I would take to another cat. I am also very unsure of if they would fight?

I wouldn't want either cat to feel pushed out or get hurt.

Any advice?

Ok so last night every dream I had was about my son as a baby.

He is the youngest of me three children and was poorly and born a little early and spent some time in the NICU.

I am probably more attatched to him then my girls but purely because of his age (2) he is still reliant on me.

Any suggestions what the dreams might be about?

Hi,

My husband found out that he is more then likely going to be made redundant. They will be starting th process of deciding exactly who to let go next week and it takes two weeks.

I currently don't work, I am a stay at home mum to our two daughter (4 and 2) and I am also currently 26weeks pregnant.

I have had a meltdown about this as we are having financial difficultys as it is. I am doing Avon to try and get a bit of money untill I have had baby then I can look for evening work.

I have managed to calm myself down and get control of my emotions and know that this must be a horrible thing for hubby to be dealing with, I just don't know what best to do to help him through.

I don't want to keep suggesting things or pointing out what we should be looking into with regards to benefits ect as I don't want him to think I'm nagging and add pressure if that makes sense.

Oh this is such a crappy situation

I have two fantastic daughters, but I am desperate for another baby.

Its awfull it has become an obsession. My husband dosen't want anymore, and while I understand thats his choice it hurts so much.

I have been feeling like this for about a year now and its just getting worse. I feel so sad, I feel like im going to explode sometimes.

I've tried ignoring it but it dosen't work. I know there is no rational reason for me to feel this way, I just wish I knew how to stop it.

Anyone got any ideas on how to stop feeling broody?

I usually have an artificial tree but would like to get a real one this year.

I'd like to know how much they cost though. Id like a 6 or 7ft tree, anyone know how much it would cost?

I think it was from the late 90's and i'm sure it was a summer song.

It had a really good beat, was very lively and I think it might have had people dressed up as animals in the vidoe, or I could just be going mad.

I think it might have had something to do with a jungle

Please help!

Is there anything I can do to help the excess skin to tighten up when losing weight?

You see people who have lost weight but have loads of excess skin afterwards, is there anything I can do to help prevent that happening?

I would really like to know what the kind of dancing they do in the sean paul videos is called.

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=qU3bGTdGF10

My daugter has blonde hair, almost white, and when I was brushing it today I noticed that she has a few blck strands of hair.

It really suprised me. Do you think it could be that her hair is slowly starting to chnge colour? Would it change like that?

Both myself and my husband were blonde as children and are now very dark.

I am hoping to train to be a midwife.

I am having so much trouble actually getting any information from anywhere!

I have 2 children, and my husband works, only earns 18,000 We do however recieve some housing benefit.

I can't find the information on what if any help I would be entitled to or if we would lose our housing benefit.

I am getting really worked up and confused, I really hope someone can help!

Is there a careers and education advice service for people over 19?

I am wanting to train as a midwife but need to find out about bursaries and childcare.

Thanks in advance

I am hoping that someone may be able to point me in the right direction.

I didn't have a religious upbringing, I wasn't baptised/christened as a child.

However, since becoming a mother I have been feeling drawn to God, and that feeling has become stronger lately. I even pray from time to time now.

I would like to attened church, but I don't really know anything about the christian faith.

I am also painfully shy, and am really nervous at the thought of going to church and meeting new people.

What is the best way of learning about the christian faith?

Its a song from a few years ago, about 5 maybe.

It keeps going round in my head and I don't know what it is. All I can remember is

'Lock up all your secrets, keep them away from me

I'll keep you out om my dreams, wont you keep me out of yours'

Im having a spray tan later and I have never had one before and im not sure what to expect.

I can keep my knickers on can't I? and do they do your face?

I need a tan but haven't been on a sunbed for years and figured that a spray tan would be the best option but Im quite nervous, Im a bit worried about the fact that Im a big girl (18-20) but that shouldn't be a problem should it?

I sent me CV off this morning (via email) and was wondering if its ok to send an email to check that it was recieved ok.

I am really struggling and keep yo-yoing. Has anyone got any advice or tips?

I know it is going to take time but I just get so frustrated and cross with myself.

Is there anything I can do to to make myself feel abit more positive about this?

Ive just got 2 new tattoo's one one the inside of each wrists. The guy said to do the same as last time, but i've just realised I have no savlon spray.

Would it be ok to use sudocrem?

What is it that happens to make us feel hunger?

Sometimes I don't realise Im hungry untill I eat something and then I feel it, other times Im not sure if Im hungry or not and it made me wonder what actually makes us feel hunger?

Does love really last forever?

I met my husband when I was young, only 16, I knew I loved him almost immediately and im still in love with him now, but I do wonder if it will really last forever.

I can't see any reason why it wouldn't last but I don't know of one couple that are still in love.

My husbands parents are still married after 30+ years but they lead seperate lives really, is that the way all marriages are headed or can the feeling of love last a lifetime?

Does anyone know of any websites that offer good tips or support for people who are trying/losing a lot of weight.

I have got off to a fairly good start but am really finding it hard.

I am eating sensibly and exercising.

All the websites and forums I come across are mostly full of people who aren't actually over weight or only have a few lbs to lose.

It would be good to talk to or read stories from people who have more to lose.

And I would appreciate it if anyone who feels like being nasty would keep their comments to themselves