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Me and this guy was dating over the summer but he thinks it’s best we have a friendship first because we are really good friends. Yet we’re still intimate,cuddle, and spend time with each other..but we still do act like friends. He literally tells me the girl’s he talks to. I see he can do this without getting his feelings involve but I still like him. He thinks we would be great together he claims when I get older. I’m 25 he’s 34. I’m not waiting around for him but I secretly wouldn’t mind us dating. How can I have a healthy friendship with him? Before we actually start dating again? Or am I not respecting myself for not walking away from the situation?

I did email him and he said it was fine but I'm kind of overthinking it..I didn't receive anything extra it's the same amount if he had did it.

I’m really getting bothered by her being here she was only supposed to be here for a week..it’s now turned into 2 months. She’s 22 has money, doesn’t help pay bills, buy groceries, or clean up after herself. Last night her drink spilled on my carpet and I told her she has to clean it up and she basically said she’s not the one that spilled the drink (my 9 year old little sister came over and knocked it over) so I had to clean it up. After I cleaned the whole house all day and cooked. I bought a lot of groceries yesterday and she said she’ll cook tomorrow. (I’m guessing with the groceries that I bought.) When she did buy something for the house it probably didn’t even come up to 10 dollars. She has a attitude problem and my little puppy seems to always be able to get her underwear to chew on because she don’t keep her suitcases closed and cleaned up. She also sleeps in our living room and she sleeps in late so I have to tip toe around until almost 1pm...my puppy has grabbed her napkins or her hair pills that fell out of her bag and I literally have to be the one that grabs it from him although she’s right there. It’s sooo much more. I really feel on edge where I’m about to kick her out. I feel like she’s using me when I ask to use her makeup wipes or anything from her she saus “you could have only 1 or 2” Also when I wanted to stay in her apartment she told me I could only stay there for 5 weeks. 

My 22 year old sister moved in with me and my boyfriend almost 2 months now. We have a 1 bedroom apartment so she's in the living room. We also have a new puppy. She has the worst attitude, doesn't help to pay for anything. Mind you she was only suppose to stay for a week but the quarantine stopped her. She was living at my mothers before but she got in a fight with my brother, so she needed a place to get away. When she does contribute to groceries, she buys what she would cook and literally take up a space and store her food she bought seperate from mines. I've cleaned up after her multiple times as well and shes getting in the way of my training with my new puppy. Tonight I asked her can I borrow make up wipes and out of her whole pack she tells me I could only get 1 or 2. Then literally questions whether my hands were clean or not although she's living n MY apartment. I'm really trying not to blow up but I feel so disrespected. Is it wrong to tell her she has to go live with my mom? My boyfriend has had it as well! He's being a champ and respectful but after he saw her private pads open in the garbage in OUR KITCHEN he's had it. I'm also trying to stop smoking and she smokes soo thats not helping.

My puppy won't poop outside no matter what I'm doing. He did it once and I gave him a treat and acted excited but he hasnt done it since. Honestly our walks have been cut short every day because he keeps finding poop and trying to eat it! Its so disgusting and frustrating. I don't know what to do anymore. He use to try to eat his own poop but I got him out of that. Now its other dogs poop and I live in a apartment complex.

I bought a new iphone in September with ATT and I got insurance on it the same time. Well my boyfriend did, were all on the same family plan. He switched his sim card and gave me the new phone, we basically swapped phones. But again we bought insurance with it and the clerk told us it would be fine. Here comes 2 days before Christmas and a coworker stole my phone. I thought I had insurance on the phone since we've been paying for it for almost 3 months! and they tell us the insurance isn't on that phone anymore its on the sim card. So our old phone now has insurance and not the phone that got stolen. I find it so ridiculous! And I don't know what to do they said its nothing they can do about it. Even though I have a police report, and proof. They could literally see the same day I bought the phone was the same day I bought insurance.

We just moved into our apartment in September, almost a month a ago we saw the biggest rat of our lives. We saw that it came from behind the dishwasher theres a hole in the wall. We told maintenance about it and they emailed us saying they fixed the hole, we didn't see the rat again so we assumed it was fixed. Fast forward to now. 2 days straight we've seen huge rats again, when we checked that VERY same hole is still there! they never fixed it, its been 2 days now that we've contacted them yet again and still no one has came by. My boyfriend even cut his hand last night trying to catch one of the rats. Also, we requested exterminators more than a month ago and they never sent anyone What should we do?

I dont have insurance and I was really feeling under the weather, I had a fever and was really weak. I called off 4 hours ahead and everything. The next day I was scheduled to work they got someone to cover my shift without asking me first, I could have pushed through and went. There telling me I need to bring in a doctors note. All I have is a receipt from walgreens showing all the medication I bought would that be enough? Mind you this is low paying job.

I filled out a application for this house off craigslist and I'm not sure if its real or not after I filled it out and sent it in he didn't say much afterwards, and now I'm learning that people can scam future home owners.

I just moved from Chicago to Atlanta and honestly finding a job is soo hard here! And their so fake about it too they’ll tell you how much they like you and blah blah but will never call you back. I’ve dressed up with lots of makeup, tight fitted clothing and have a good resume. I do look young( I’m 24) but look like 18 and I’m pretty petite but have a nice shape. I know I’m not ugly never been told that before and a lot of people tell me I would be good in a nightclub. But yet every time I do a interview I don’t get the job! I’m not going to lie all the interviews I’ve went to the other girls do have bigger butts and boobs but do you think that’s seriously why I’m not getting a job? Or is it my nice girl personality? What are good ways to get a job at a night club?

I just started working In a restaurant and I’ve never worked in a restaurant before. Honestly I HATE IT I even cried yesterday i feel like a slave working there and the managers and chefs belittle you. I won’t ever work in a restaurant again! I still have a 2nd job. I’m suppose to be going in in a hour and I sent her a notice last night but she asked if this is my 2 weeks notice or am I not showing up at all. My bf said I should not show up but I feel bad. I won’t regret it cause I literally hate it so much. Going there I’m already in a bad mood. I can’t handle 2 more weeks.

I just moved to Atlanta and I have never seen such spiders before in my life everywhere I go I see spiders BIG ones and it’s driving me crazy even typing right now about them is making me itch. I’m scared to do certain things anymore because I’m scared a big one will jump out on me. I know I can’t get rid of them completely but is there anyway I can reduce them? I heard spider repellent doesn’t work. Also is there anyway I can keep them out of my breezeway? I live in a apartment complex and outside the door there s spiders everywhere and my neighbors don’t care :( Can I put something outside my door that’ll be strong enough to prevent them from staying there? I have no bugs in my apartment or cracks so I’m not sure how there getting in maybe it’s the vent? I need serious help.

My bf and I have been together for about 5 years. He’s a really good bf but I always have to clean and I feel like I do more surprises for him even if it’s setting up a romantic dinner in our dining room or bringing home random food when he’s not thinking about it. All I’ve asked for 5 years is the same in return. I feel crazy getting upset about something like this that’s why I need advice. Again he is a good bf and probably just not thinking about doing that but I told him it’s the little things that count. It doesn’t have to be Chanel’s or jewelry but just something to let me know he thinks about me besides a text message. Even on special days he plans everything last min like a hour ahead. Am I wrong for feeling like this?

My brother has been diagnosed with bipolar, and it’s getting worse he busted my 5 year old brothers lip and tried to get to him through the door out of rage. We were in the room locked up and he was banging on the door trying to get to my younger brother. Keep in mind my brother who is bipolar is 17 years old! My mom and dad are gonna sit back and said well my little brother messed with him and they closed the door. They let my older brother calll them bitches and disrespect them every way possible! I’m 24 and I’m fed up this is starting to effect my younger siblings and their my world! If my mom allows him to disrespect her fine but not my brother and sister! I don’t care about my brother anymore dead or alive he’s done soo much and I’m just fed up. Also can we send him to a detention center although he has no social security?

This may be a silly question but my boyfriend thinks I get mad for the wrong reasons or argue too fast but in our apartment the light have been out since 5pm and it’s 5am now. My house is literally freezing and I can’t even take a shower! I also work from home. The office was closed so I couldn’t contact them. The hallway lights outside of our apartment works so it is just our apartment our neighborhood said their lights have been off for 2 days now and they still haven’t fixed it. NOT ME. I’m literally ready to go in tomorrow morning and give them a piece of my mind do I have a right to be upset? P.S I can’t be as patient as my neighbor.

My brother is so aggravating he’s 16 and doesn’t want to go to school. he constantly argues with my parents calls them the b word says the f word multiple times and the last time got in my moms face. He has been diagnosed with bipolar. Before that they thought he was depressed and a whole bunch of other stuff. I’m not gonna lie he doesn’t talk to us and does act weird compared to us and I feel like it’s my parents fault to be honest. Every time I pick up for them and fights him physically because he disrespected my parents they blame me afterwards! He even pulled a knife on my bf and when my bf was about to swing on him with a bat my mom blamed us? Although we were protecting her! Honestly at this point I’m done with my parents and him they could deal with him. My mom literally went to court Over him not showing up at school and went through lawyers and everything to get him into a school that’ll help him and he still doesn’t go! Even when the school provides transportation for him ( literally comes to our door) like I stated before I am done with them but I’m starting to feel bad. Was I in the wrong for fighting him all those times?

I just moved from Chicago to Atlanta and I know absolutely no one. I feel so lost how can I start networking with other people?

I have a volvo xc90 2006 2.5T. My car was showing check engine and I took it to the Volvo dealership to get it checked out. They said I was having a problem with Upstream 02 oxygen sensor and steering angular sensor. I replaced the oxygen sensor and the other part. The mechanic turned off the check engine light after replacing it with a new oxygen sensor and I drove about 0.7 miles back home. I started the car again and drove about 3 miles and the light came back on. Does it mean that I have to drive it for certain miles before the light could clear off? or the issue is just not yet fixed?