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hey everyone, thanks for stopping by, i was hoping for some insight on this.

i am in a long distance relationship that started off amazingly, the chemistry was great, we have alot on common and we want the same things in life, from religion, marriage etc.

three weeks ago he had a really rough week at work and our communication just went down the toilet! But i didnt nag about it knowing he was having a rough week and let it slide. the following week was the same thing, from our ten emails a day to not even ten emails a week, i didnt hear from him all of thursday friday, saturday and sunday and only heard from him monday saying something came up and he had to take care of it, i was hurt that he couldnt even send me a little note to tell me what was going on, i mentioned this to him and he said sorry i said please dont do it again because its hurtful and it makes me feel like you dont care. he said ok he wont do it again. but since that monday night i only got three mails from him, i havent heard from him in 5 days, all of this weekend he was ignoring me too. I dont know if he is doing a power game or if he is taking me for granted or if he doesnt care anymore. I dont know what to do. Do i email him and tell him I am hurt by his attitude or do i leave it and ignore him til he comes round. All the internet articles say ignore him til he comes round and dont be readily available for him. i always answer his emails immediately and call him back immediately and i end up being the first to call or text or write every morning and i feel i am putting so much in and not getting anything in return and its making me feel hurt.

Pls help I am runnin out of ideas on how to help my little sis....ok she's 25 not so little ha ha

a guy she's met online on some forum started mailin her n they became really friendly. They email each other all the time but he lives on the other side of the country.

yesterday he emails her askin whats the best way to get to the city she's at and whats the quickest.

my sis has a bit of a strange sense of humour n replied....i dunno.why? who's travelling?

this morning he replies back....i was just wondering, no need to panic i'm not that desperate!!!!

now she's pissed off n complainin to me but I dunno wat she should tell the guy....i would jus copy n paste a sermon on makin assumptions...any ideas???

Hi There, I live in south africa and the goji berries promotion is locked for us coz we dont have seven eleven supermarkets here. can anyone help me here please?

Hi

My friend's cat has had kittens recently and i went to see them, they are beautiful and I really liked one specific one and my friend wants me to have it. But I have never had a kitten or cat before and dont know what do i need to know or do to take care of it? what do i feed it? how do i bath it? what does it drink? Please help am getting the kitten on sunday.

Hi there thanks for dropping by....

Wanted to know on American Facebook is it true that if you delete someone off your friends list then request to add them again its not possible because thats American Law?

The reason I am asking is because My bf and I had a HUGE argument and from the email he sent me i thought he broke up with me so i deleted him off facebook to be able to make a clean break, later he came back and said that he didnt mean what he said in the way it sounded and he was just angry thats why he said it. So i asked him today if he'd like to reconnect on facebook and messenger so he said that the law of the land states that once you 'defriend' a person you cant have them back on your profile is this true?

I read alot about the sai baba of shirdi and saw that nobody really knew if he himself was hindu or muslim and all his follwers were both muslims and hindus.

now my bf is a sai baba devotee and says he follows vedic teachings....i try to ask him to explain so i understand but he always ends up arguing with me instead of explaining. then he goes on to say sai baba said this in his discourse and sai baba said that in his discourse and yet he treats me and behaves towards me opposite to the things sai baba says....yet he says he's better than me because he is hindu and i am not.

I know i asked this question earlier but didnt really get responses so am asking again...

I live in South Africa, my boyfriend lives in the US. After much thinking of how and when we'll meet I bought a ticket of almost 4 thousand US dollars to go visit him in august for 2 weeks. Initially he had said come for 4 to 6 weeks and he hopes I like being with him so much I don't come back to South Africa at all. (we've known each other 5 years).

Today was the day I was supposed to finalize and fully pay off my ticket, last night i asked him what should i do because i need to know when to book a return date so he said come for two weeks. I was gutted but thought not to make a big deal of it and said ok. Then told him I am so excited I will be seeing him soon and his reply was not at all happy or excited. So i said I cant help but feel you're not excited as i am so his reply to that was, i'm at work how excited to you expect me to be. I was hurt and feeling really crappy because I felt he wasnt really bothered about me going to see him.

Then today before paying for the ticket i sent him an email coz he doesnt like me texting him, i said please let me know if you want me to come or not so i can pay for the ticket. so he says yeah come for two weeks. I finish pay for the ticket and we are emailing back and forth while i try to explain to him how difficult it was for me to put together that sort of money, the sacrifices i made to be able to make the trip and how i wanted to feel appreciated and loved and wanted...and how i just wanted him to be nice and say he wants me to come...then i said....

I always thought the day I finally have my ticket all sorted and know

when I'm travelling I will be over the moon with glee but the way

things happened I can't help but wonder if its a sign of some kind.

His Reply....Im sorry im not able to help u. I dont know how often u are going to.flying off the handle. And u wonder why i get concerned.

Im sorry ill save up and send u the money

To This I said...Very Smooth...if its payback of any kind that you were looking for you certainly got it and alot extra! you hurt me, make me feel like my efforts and my feelings mean nothing then you break up with me. and to cheapen me you tell me you're going to send me money.... nice!

well i guess that's that then....goodbye and good luck finding miss perfect! (he never replied to this mail)

Then I just felt I had to tell him how he made me feel so i sent him this.....good luck with your exams, work and every other area of your life. I would have liked a confirmation email from you saying you've broken up with me for some closure but its ok. am deleting you off messenger and facebook etc not to be rude but because if you're still on there and I see you online I know I'll want to come say hi to you and I know you wont like that but u have my email address if there is anything you'd like to say. I'm sad it ended this way, I never said I was perfect and you've always known I am emotional and like to feel that the other person I am in a relationship with wants, needs and appreciates me. If you feel that's drama and insane then that's sad. There's millions of other things I'd like to say but it doesn't really matter now. Its a good thing for you that you haven't said anything to your family this way its easier, I on the other hand told my mum yesterday so its going to be a bit weird for a while. (he never replied to this either and i have not sent him any more mail)

My question is why is it soooooooo wrong to want to feel loved and wanted and appreciated after making such huge sacrifices to go over to the other end of the world to see someone for just two weeks?

I live in South Africa, my boyfriend lives in the US. After much thinking of how and when we'll meet I bought a ticket of almost 4 thousand US dollars to go visit him in august for 2 weeks. Initially he had said come for 4 to 6 weeks and he hopes I like being with him so much I don't come back to South Africa at all. (we've known each other 5 years).

Today was the day I was supposed to finalize and fully pay off my ticket, last night i asked him what should i do because i need to know when to book a return date so he said come for two weeks. I was gutted but thought not to make a big deal of it and said ok. Then told him I am so excited I will be seeing him soon and his reply was not at all happy or excited. So i said I cant help but feel you're not excited as i am so his reply to that was, i'm at work how excited to you expect me to be. I was hurt and feeling really crappy because I felt he wasnt really bothered about me going to see him.

Then today before paying for the ticket i sent him an email coz he doesnt like me texting him, i said please let me know if you want me to come or not so i can pay for the ticket. so he says yeah come for two weeks. I finish pay for the ticket and we are emailing back and forth while i try to explain to him how difficult it was for me to put together that sort of money, the sacrifices i made to be able to make the trip and how i wanted to feel appreciated and loved and wanted...and how i just wanted him to be nice and say he wants me to come...then i said....

I always thought the day I finally have my ticket all sorted and know

when I'm travelling I will be over the moon with glee but the way

things happened I can't help but wonder if its a sign of some kind.

His Reply....Im sorry im not able to help u. I dont know how often u are going to.flying off the handle. And u wonder why i get concerned.

Im sorry ill save up and send u the money

To This I said...Very Smooth...if its payback of any kind that you were looking for you certainly got it and alot extra! you hurt me, make me feel like my efforts and my feelings mean nothing then you break up with me. and to cheapen me you tell me you're going to send me money.... nice!

well i guess that's that then....goodbye and good luck finding miss perfect! (he never replied to this mail)

Then I just felt I had to tell him how he made me feel so i sent him this.....good luck with your exams, work and every other area of your life. I would have liked a confirmation email from you saying you've broken up with me for some closure but its ok. am deleting you off messenger and facebook etc not to be rude but because if you're still on there and I see you online I know I'll want to come say hi to you and I know you wont like that but u have my email address if there is anything you'd like to say. I'm sad it ended this way, I never said I was perfect and you've always known I am emotional and like to feel that the other person I am in a relationship with wants, needs and appreciates me. If you feel that's drama and insane then that's sad. There's millions of other things I'd like to say but it doesn't really matter now. Its a good thing for you that you haven't said anything to your family this way its easier, I on the other hand told my mum yesterday so its going to be a bit weird for a while. (he never replied to this either and i have not sent him any more mail)

My question is why is it soooooooo wrong to want to feel loved and wanted and appreciated after making such huge sacrifices to go over to the other end of the world to see someone for just two weeks?

What kind of camera do i need to take professional looking pictures of landscapes and portraits?

Hi there thanks for reading my question. I would like to know if anyone can help me with advise. What kind of cameras, lenses and accessories do i need to be able to take professional type photos of landscapes and people and what computer software is good to edit and touch up pictures? I am wanting to start photography as a hobby and join a class but want to know what type of equipment i will be needing so they can show me how to use it properly.

thanks

Hi there thanks for reading my question. I would like to know if anyone can help me with advise. What kind of cameras, lenses and accessories do i need to be able to take professional type photos of landscapes and people and what computer software is good to edit and touch up pictures? I am wanting to start photography as a hobby and join a class but want to know what type of equipment i will be needing so they can show me how to use it properly.

thanks