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Why does everyone agree?

I am 36 and never been married. Why does everyone think I will never find the woman for me?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    As long as you believe that there is someone out there for you, it doesn't matter what everyone else thinks. People seem to assume that since you're 36 and not married, something is wrong with you, like you couldn't have lived a happy and fulfilled life without a wife and children by now. But that's not everyone's destiny and there is a woman out there for you. There is someone out there for everyone, just learn from your past relationships and go into your next relationships with optimism and the effort to want to make it work and you'll be fine.

    Good luck.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    They base their opinions on what you tell them and not what is genuinely in your heart. They may view you as someone who is intolerant and demanding of perfection and therefore it is easy to believe that you will never find the woman for you. Also, 36 isn't old but it is long enough for you to be set in your ways and that can also contribute to their belief. A marriage requires compromise and an ability to forgive. Maybe you have shown thru your actions that those qualities are difficult for you. Without knowing you personally , I can only guess.

    I believe there is someone for everyone and you just haven't found your match yet.

    Best wishes.

  • 1 decade ago

    I got married for the first time at 39, divorced at 43...still single at 48. Marriage is way over rated imho.

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  • 1 decade ago

    just because others think doesnt mean that they should think for you. Dont worry about what they say so you will find happiness later in life when all these people are going threw a divorce and you will then have the last laugh enjoy being single there is nothing wrong with it

  • 1 decade ago

    MAYBE YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. THAT IS WHY YOU HAVE NOT FOUND IT. DONT TAKE SEROUS WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY. IN LIFE IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOUR CUTE OR AGLY EVERYBODYS OPINION ON LOOKS IS DIFERENT IS WHO YOU ARE AS A PERSON AND WHAT YOU HAVE TO OFFER. IF YOUR A MAN WITH NO GOAL,LAZY, LEAVE WITH YOUR MAMA, YOU DONT DO ANYTHING THAN YOU HAVE A PROBLEM BEFORE YOU MEET SOMEONE YOU HAVE TO CHANGE. IN ORDER TO SHARE YOUR LIFE WITH SOMEONE YOU NEED TO BE COMPLETE. LADYS DONT LIKE GUYS THAT ARE STILL HOME WITH THERE MOM JA JA JA

  • 1 decade ago

    People think that marriage/getting a degree/6 figure job/big house/kids is some type of ultimate goal....

    but it is not

    Source(s): nice guy
  • Sean C
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    My wife met me at 35.

    So it's still possible for you to find the one that is for you. She married me at 38. It's not too late.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    All you have to do is announce your willingness to get married, have children and buy a house in the burbs. No matter how ugly, stupid, unprogressive and boorish you are, I guarantee you will get a woman with this formula. You may not get a woman who likes you or will even stay faithful, but you'll get a woman. Probability is on your side.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Who is everyone??? I personally think that it will happen when the time is right, there is no certain age to find that special person.

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