I'm getting married in 23 days.. Any advice?

A marriage between two people means a life partnership.....a partnership.....I thought that need to be repeated.....neither has control over the other...neither can tell the other what to do or not do......you share.....my goal has always been to make my wife happy...no matter what it takes.......I am fortunate that it is really an easy task.........I try to put her wants before my own.....that includes the bedroom also.....I always want to make sure she that she, "gets hers" no matter what....

I saved the best for last.....if you really want to make points then continue to hold her hand when you walk together....(women love this), help with the house chores even if you have worked 60 hours this week.....help fold the laundry or just get up and start doing the dishes without her speaking a word.....you will be lucky if she doesn't hop your bones before you get done with your chore.

No one shared this info with me and it took 15 years to learn about helping with house work.....I thought I was doing my part.....I wasn't and it was a good lesson....I have been in like Flynn since I learned this....there are only two of us as we are empty nesters and it doesn't take fifteen minutes to do the dinner dishes....or much time to cook a meal....learn to make new dishes together.....learn to enjoy each other.....it is fine for separate hobbies.....I have mine and she has hers.....

Good luck and much success!

Someone once said, "Never go to bed angry." I strongly disagree. I say "When angry, go to bed." You're going to disagree/argue/fight. It's the nature of marriage. But when you're angry, you say a lot of stuff that's fueled by anger, not by rationality.

After a good night's sleep (which may not be that good because you're mad but...) you'll be a little more level headed and you can talk things out rationally to resolve the issue, not make it worse by continuing to start anger-inspired hurtful things.

Best of luck. Marriage isn't always perfect, but it's the ups and downs that make it worth it.

Understand your partner's expectations. Include them in every decision making. Things will go fine.

wow lucky you! good luck but be sure this is the perfect woman you cant live without ..be good man after just make yourself relax and prepared.

Good Lock , Respect is the most important thing :)

Congratulations!!

Don't

PUSSY WHOOP!

Just kidding, you'll be fine. make sure to have your vows written down right though, and drink a beer before going into church!

Best of luck and keep in mind that no one is perfect.

Yes..RUN!!